Quote:Well I've spoken to qualified psychologists who say that it is an anomaly similar to/associated with other personality abnormalities.
WOW you have actually spoken to qualified psychologists..amazing...so what
Quote:It's almost like asking - what causes addiction? Do we know? Well we supposedly think that we do, but then why don't we approach homosexuality in a similar way
Because it isnt caused by the same thing
Quote:positive re-enforcement can allow us to be lured into addictive behaviours - even ones that are really bad for us and are recognized diseases/disorders. Have you ever asked a cutter why they cut and why they don't just stop?
You seriously think homosexual attraction is a learned behavior? What sort of 'Qualified psychologists' do you know? The ones who claim they can cure gays?
Quote:I think at the end of the day people need to be happy with who they are - and if they're so insecure that they need to identify themselves by their sexuality - "I'm a homosexual this is who I am" - then it does fall short. If a homosexual was not homosexual, would they be the same person - who would they be - what would define them, and why did they want to identify themselves by their sexuality.
perhaps when people are no longer harrassed for their sexuality it will be less of an issue for them