elconquistador, I hope that you can eventually sort things out with your father. He's probably not going to change and accept your views but you should not cut off all ties. Just give it time. Your main problem now is getting a new job and a new place sorted. Does your wife feel the same way as you? If so that's the best thing, you can support each other.
It's not immoral to eat meat, abort a fetus or love someone of the same sex...I think that about covers it
