Mormon: "There is no such thing as rape."

[John V]

Even if the passage in question was talking about completely consensual sex between a man and a woman, what on earth makes it okay for the woman to lose agency over her own body and be forced to submit to the will of her father?

You load the question with your own moral positions as if they're givens. They're not. Until you can prove that every person has a right to agency over their own body, your question doesn't need an answer.