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how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"?
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RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"?
Just my view here but I'd suggest saying "thanks, you too" and get over it. You're responsible for your feelings, not him. It's your problem. Start down the path of insisting that religious people interact with you in a way that does not offend your Atheist sensibility we risk becoming what they say we are. Sounds like he's making a nice gesture to me, in the context he best knows how.


To quote Steve hughes

"Now you have adults going “I was offended, I was offended and I have rights!” Well so what, be offended, nothing happened. You’re an adult, grow up, and deal with it. I was offended! Well, I don’t care! Nothing happens when you’re offended. “I went to the comedy show and the comedian said something about the lord, and I was offended, and when I woke up in the morning, I had leprosy."

Nothing Happens. “I want to live in a democracy but I never want to be offended again.” Well you’re an idiot.

How do you make a law about offending people? How do you make it an offense to offend people? Being offended is subjective. It has everything to do with you as an individual or a collective, or a group or a society or a community. Your moral conditioning, your religious beliefs. What offends me may not offend you. And you want to make laws about this? I’m offended when I see boy bands for god sake.


Substitute "uncomfortable" with "offended" it's just as true
"Peace is a lie, there is only passion.
Through passion, I gain strength.
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through victory, my chains are broken."
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RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Aisha - January 30, 2015 at 6:39 pm
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Roxy904 - January 30, 2015 at 6:57 pm
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Aisha - January 31, 2015 at 7:18 am
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Pyrrho - February 18, 2015 at 8:39 pm
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Nope - January 30, 2015 at 7:20 pm
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Roxy904 - January 30, 2015 at 8:48 pm
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by bennyboy - January 31, 2015 at 6:07 am
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by robvalue - January 31, 2015 at 7:26 am
RE: how to respond to dad's "shabbat shalom"? - by Jacob(smooth) - February 10, 2015 at 3:30 am

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