(March 19, 2015 at 11:46 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: Great questions...
1. According to the transcripts from the hearing, my ex stated that "the only reason why he wanted Jordan was to teach me a lesson that he was not going away". Being the narcissist he is, he seeks out control. Jordan will never be able to live independently, therefore, she will always need to live somewhere that her needs can be taken care of. My ex, in his smear campaign, realized that once my youngest child (the one he is a biological father to) turns 18, he will no longer be able to use her as a weapon against me because there will be no more custody battles to fight in court. Taking Jordan was a step he used to ensure that he will always have a foothold of control in my life.
And that was the reason he gave? Nothing else? Sounds like the tactics of an abuser to me. How could any sane judge agree to that?
(March 19, 2015 at 11:46 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: 2. I am not allowed contact with my oldest because he refuses to allow it. When the courts granted him plenary guardianship, they unfairly stripped away all rights I had. All of them. He was placed in complete control of my daughter. This is one of the primary issues I had brought in front of the Superior court. Now, it's in the hands of the Supreme court.I don't know anything about law but surely they can only do that for a legitimate reason and not just that your ex wants it. In any case, the courts made the wrong decision, i'm sure they'll come to their senses eventually.
What was your mother doing to your daughter? What boundaries was she crossing?
(March 19, 2015 at 11:46 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: The other two children belong to my fiancee. His sons come to us three weekends out of the month. They have expressed a desire to want to live with us, as we found out last year, their mother was being abusive to them. The boys consider me to be more of a mother to them than their own mom. The last thing I want to do is have them feel that way, but they have a mother who constantly yells at them, beats them and makes them do ALL the housework while she sits on her ass, drinks till she passes out, pops pills and gets high, they started looking at the next closest maternal figure in their lives. That would happen to be me. I love these boys as if they are my own and they know that.
It'll be a good character reference for the courts, to know the bond you have developed with your fiances kids
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'You can have all the faith you want in spirits, and the afterlife, and heaven and hell, but when it comes to this world, don't be an idiot. Cause you can tell me you put your faith in God to put you through the day, but when it comes time to cross the road, I know you look both ways.' - Dr House
“Young earth creationism is essentially the position that all of modern science, 90% of living scientists and 98% of living biologists, all major university biology departments, every major science journal, the American Academy of Sciences, and every major science organization in the world, are all wrong regarding the origins and development of life….but one particular tribe of uneducated, bronze aged, goat herders got it exactly right.” - Chuck Easttom
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