Christians : my problem with Christianity, some questions.

[Esquilax]

So, when you say "God...He...Him..." you really ought to be saying, "they...them."

When I say The President... He... Him... Who am I speaking of, All of them? or the man in charge?

Again God is a title and it is correct to address a person holding a title by his title. In Jewish and Christian tradition to simply refer to God is to speak of the Father.

And if you were in a room with multiple presidents, would you use "the president" to refer to all of them at once?