The right to mis-define oneself

[bennyboy]

You are deliberately avoiding my point.  My point is that the need to disclose reveals a difference between natural-born women and transgender women.  They are not equivalent.

It's hard to believe that you are this dense. It's like you haven't read anything I've said. I literally quoted myself twice linking to two times and more that I have said that no one has ever suggested that they are the same, and neither do the transgender people think they are the same, and no one has asked you to accept that they are physically the same. What we are saying is that there is a difference between sex and gender, and that a person can be female gender and male sex. And that just because a person is female gender does not mean she's trying to hide the male anatomy from sexual partners---and your insistence that they are is what is causing so much resistance.

First, quote where I insisted that transwomen are hiding their sex organs from her sexual partners. You keep accusing me of not reading what you've said-- prove you're not a hypocrite by quoting where I accused transwomen of sexually assaulting men by late reveals.

Second, go back to the many posts in which I acknowledged the social issues, rights, and ambiguities in defining gender, and be honest that I HAVE acknowledged them. I'm tired of defending the things you keep saying I've said, but haven't.