(July 10, 2015 at 12:23 am)Aroura Wrote:(July 7, 2015 at 11:48 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I can't show this to my husband lol. He's super paranoid about facebook and keeps threatening to get rid of his account. I won't let him, of course.
It was this comment I was referring to about keeping info from him.
I share information with husband, and let him make his own decision. If I knew he was worried about, say the PW security of his Paypal account, then I found out that Paypal had even more risks than he was aware of, I'd tell him. Keeping the fact the FB is even worse than he fears from him just seemed....I don't know....controlling? Untrusting? Dishonest? Sorry, I'm not trying to be confrontational. My husband sometimes does things that make me want to tear my hair out, and I don't think he always akes the best decisions, but it's just my nature to be up front about these kinds of things with him, I guess.
(July 9, 2015 at 8:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think it's important for both of us to have a facebook because of our lifestyle. We are military so we are far away from family and old friends... plus we will be moving a lot, so that means leaving behind friends that we make all over the country. Obviously, if he really wanted to delete his facebook he'd put his foot down and do it regardless of how I felt about it. I do really feel like it's beneficial for the both of us to keep connected with all the people we are constantly leaving behind. He can make his facebook as private and exclusive as he wants, and he has. :
What do you mean by keeping important information from my husband?
I understand the desire to stay connected to family, that is one of the reasons I suppose that FB is popular.
I see where you're coming from. I'm not one to believe in US government conspiracy theories, so I don't really take any of that stuff seriously enough to feel as though it is worth passing on the info to anyone else. If I thought it was something serious and real, I would definitely talk to him about it.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
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