Atheists have better sex

[thesummerqueen]

But it is affected by your religion or lack thereof, unless you're one of the rare religions that are open, or rare atheists who are prudes. Religions causes mystery that really is bullshit out of natural processes.

For instance, I could date a Jewish guy who wants absolutely nothing to do with understanding my body as a woman and what I go through. Unlike the Jewish atheist guy who was so into biology and, as I said, nerding out about sex, that I consistently had way more orgasms in a night or weekend with him than any other man except my current boyfriend. Out of the monotheistic religions, Jews have a slightly healthier idea of sex but only in the context of marriage, and that's only if you're lower Conservative or Reform. Even more liberal Christians can make sex the taboo area where parents don't talk to their kids about the mechanics, and if they do they don't also teach them how to discuss it because they should be considering how to be moral and godly instead.

I joked about this in Area 69 but there's a site called Christiannymphos.org where they use SCRIPTURE to justify things that shouldn't need fucking justification at all.

Please tell us more.......

I believe I mention some of that in the same Area.

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And for the record, my fairly liberal Jewish mother gave me books and had a mechanics discussion with me at a couple different ages, but refuses to acknowledge to this day that I have sex with anyone. There was no training on how to listen and ask questions, on how it's important to talk to your partner to make sure you're happy (with anything in a relationship).

I don't know what made the change, but by the time I was 23 I had realized that what i had been doing in the past wasn't working. I coincide that with finally letting go of posing as a Jew and realizing by finally meeting other atheists that there wasn't anything wrong with me. I wasn't evil for being a woman. I wasn't evil for liking sex. I wasn't a whore. I was human, I have a human body that I enjoy and like having others enjoy. And it's okay - even stimulating! - to discuss how best to do that. Which is great, because if you can discuss where someone's body fluids are going to go, you can rationally discuss where the coffee mugs are going to go.