RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 1:17 pm
(This post was last modified: November 28, 2015 at 1:21 pm by Regina.)
I see selective outrage in this thread
I think it's funny how people react differently to men and women cheating. If this was a woman filming her cheating boyfriend, nobody would be coming to his defense. People would be (quite justifiably in my opinion) dragging him up and down and calling him a cheating asshole. But then when it's a woman people want to make excuses for her and talk about "it depends, you don't know their circumstances".
I think there are some genuine cases of cheating where the cheater was driven to it, but that transgresses gender. Still most women who cheat had no good reason, and it still stands that most men who cheat have no good reason to either. "Well fuck her better" isn't the whole story, having better sex and a better relationship takes two to work. The bored partner considering cheating has to put some effort into it too. And if all else fails I completely agree with what Nap said, you end the relationship before you explore with other partners.
I think it's funny how people react differently to men and women cheating. If this was a woman filming her cheating boyfriend, nobody would be coming to his defense. People would be (quite justifiably in my opinion) dragging him up and down and calling him a cheating asshole. But then when it's a woman people want to make excuses for her and talk about "it depends, you don't know their circumstances".
I think there are some genuine cases of cheating where the cheater was driven to it, but that transgresses gender. Still most women who cheat had no good reason, and it still stands that most men who cheat have no good reason to either. "Well fuck her better" isn't the whole story, having better sex and a better relationship takes two to work. The bored partner considering cheating has to put some effort into it too. And if all else fails I completely agree with what Nap said, you end the relationship before you explore with other partners.
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"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie
