I came out to my mother during a church service when I was 11. Other than saying she didn't think it was an appropriate time, nothing changed. Even better, she became an atheist (of sorts) a few years later.
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Parents freak out when their child announces he's an atheist
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I am very envious of those of you who have parents that accepted your lack of belief and even joined you in it.
What I would give ... There are no conditions in my home. Love is given with no strings attached. Even if he decides to accept jesus as his inner parasite - I will love my son regardless. Your god don't hold a candle to me! RE: Parents freak out when their child announces he's an atheist
May 21, 2012 at 10:41 am
(This post was last modified: May 21, 2012 at 10:44 am by Shell B.)
I think it is up to the person. If they want to say something, they should. If everyone stopped themselves from doing something for fear of backlash, we would all be walking clones. This kid is having to deal with a lot, but at least he's not lying about what he thinks. He'll eventually be old enough to stand on his own two feet and he will know who his parents really are when he gets there. That's not a bad thing.
(May 21, 2012 at 12:44 am)Annik Wrote: General policy on r/atheism (at least the amongst sensible folk) is to tell people who are not financially secure to keep their atheism to themselves. The reason is... Well, we can see the results. It took balls to own up to his convictions, I wish he could've had an easier time. Oh, I wasn't questioning the advice, I was just saying, "Really?" as in, "You were really in that first thread the kid linked?"
I am lucky most if not all of my family members are Atheists. But that is fucked up.
"Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful" - Edward Gibbon (Offen misattributed to Lucius Annaeus Seneca or Seneca the Younger) (Thanks to apophenia for the correction)
'I am driven by two main philosophies: Know more about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others. You'd be surprised how far that gets you' - Neil deGrasse Tyson "Sometimes I wonder whether the world is being run by smart people who are putting us on or by imbeciles who really mean it." - Mark Twain
It looks like he's deleted his Reddit account, too.
I feel very fortunate to live in an atheist household, if I came home parading around as a Christian, then I'd get into trouble.
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“Whoever will be free must make himself free. Freedom is no fairy gift to fall into a man's lap. What is freedom? To have the will to be responsible for one's self.” - Max Stirner.
Yeah, his parents sound like the typical hard-line religious dicks that infest America lately.
Yeah, fuck them and their intolerance.
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Hes gone.
"That is not dead which can eternal lie and with strange aeons even death may die."
- Abdul Alhazred.
Either his parents found the link or the kid was afraid they would and he deleted it. I feel bad for him, because after the initial shock of me telling my parents I don't believe in god and a short debate on his existence, I was never forced to go to church again. In fact, we didn't even talk about it until I brought it up some 16 years later.
My mom and dad definitely had their faults(who doesn't?), but I was damn lucky to have them as parents. I hope to be as good as they were.
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
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