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Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 12:31 am
There was a thread that kinda went along these lines, but since it was started and largely posted in by a troll, it just devolved into a flame war. I guess I'll start up one with good faith and good intention and maybe I can help educate people a little. Violet, if you want you're more than welcome to answer any questions as well. If you have any questions specific for female-to-male transsexuals, I can ask my boyfriend about it, since that's kinda his territory.
Anyway, yeah, everyone here kinda knows I'm transsexual. Here's your opportunity to ask me anything at all you want about it. I'll answer any question, but if you ask an inentionally and obviously inflamitory answer, I'll respond with an intentionally and obviously inflamitory response.
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 12:33 am
Do you even lift?
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 12:35 am
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At what age did you know?
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 12:38 am
(January 28, 2013 at 12:33 am)Gilgamesh Wrote: Do you even lift?
No. I try to go to the gym some and I'm making a point to walk more, but I'm afraid to do too much weight lifting. My shoulders are already much more broad than I want them to be.
(January 28, 2013 at 12:35 am)Stue Denim Wrote: At what age did you know?
I always knew there was something different about me. I think what really got my attention was when I was 29 and I found out what effect estrogen would have on a male body. Now, looking back, had I known about that at 11 or 12 or 13, I might have gotten started a lot younger. And I can't say I knew with any certainty until then but, again, looking back I can see all the signs. Hindsight's always 20/20, isn't it?
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 12:45 am
(January 28, 2013 at 12:31 am)TaraJo Wrote: There was a thread that kinda went along these lines, but since it was started and largely posted in by a troll, it just devolved into a flame war. I guess I'll start up one with good faith and good intention and maybe I can help educate people a little. Violet, if you want you're more than welcome to answer any questions as well. If you have any questions specific for female-to-male transsexuals, I can ask my boyfriend about it, since that's kinda his territory.
Nah, I don't do things like that
Especially not when I'm asked~
Quote:Anyway, yeah, everyone here kinda knows I'm transsexual. Here's your opportunity to ask me anything at all you want about it. I'll answer any question, but if you ask an inentionally and obviously inflamitory answer, I'll respond with an intentionally and obviously inflamitory response.
It's our forum, we know this
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 4:09 am
(January 28, 2013 at 12:33 am)Gilgamesh Wrote: Do you even lift?
And then you complain about other peoples behavior.
Seriously??????????
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 4:14 am
(January 28, 2013 at 4:09 am)The_Germans_are_coming Wrote: (January 28, 2013 at 12:33 am)Gilgamesh Wrote: Do you even lift?
And then you complain about other peoples behavior.
Seriously??????????
Sit, boy.
It's the only trick he knows.
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 4:21 am
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(January 28, 2013 at 12:31 am)TaraJo Wrote: I'll answer any question.
Has transexuality, or alike, been observed among animals?
Edit; the question might be silly, but is not meant offensive ofcourse.
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 4:24 am
(January 28, 2013 at 4:14 am)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote: Sit, boy.
It's the only trick he knows.
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RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 4:32 am
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(January 28, 2013 at 4:21 am)Dee Dee Ramone Wrote: Has transexuality, or alike, been observed among animals?
Tell me... what are the personality differences between male dogs and female dogs?
Other than a tendency for the cisgendered females to be more submissive, and the cisgendered males to be more dominant... it's rather hard to tell past individual personalities. It's rather likely that there are transsexual dogs, but the real problem is this: how do you distinguish them from homosexual dogs? Conclusion: You'd have to find a MtF 'male dog' being consensually dominated by a female dog, or an FtM 'female dog' consensually dominating a male dog, (last few cases obvious).
See... gender is in great part: societal, cultural. As humans, we posses language and civilization and culture and tradition and the concept of gender and gender roles... to observe something as observationally subtle and nuanced as the gender of a creature... it isn't a very easy thing to do.
One quick scan later, fast answer: no. Hey, a dude on yahoo said it best XD
Yahoo dude Wrote:Cases of animals that display unusual sex characteristics (like the "hen" who ended up looking more like a rooster) are intersex.
Animals like worms that don't have sexual differentiation, or like many species of fish where sexual differentiation regularly changes over time (all members of the species having the potential to act on either end of the reproductive process, and the largest "female" physically changes to become "male" when one is needed) are a different matter entirely. There, we're talking about species that have entirely different sexual make-ups than we do.
Even among higher mammals that are mostly similar to us sexually, it would be impossible to really tell if a given member of the species is "transgender," since that requires a level of conscious social identification that animals don't have.
But if we're going to ascribe human social categories to animals, yes, there are many animals that display very atypical behavior for their physical sex. This includes but is not limited to sexual behavior.
I'd staple 'and self-identification' to that, but then we'll end up with a beastiality thread as I teach the forum an amazing amount about the world they live in
(January 28, 2013 at 4:24 am)Gilgamesh Wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAYL5H46QnQ
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