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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 9:49 am
(April 14, 2013 at 5:50 am)Muslim Scholar Wrote: In Islam while there is no minimum age for marriage
If boy or girl are not adults (reached the age of adulthood) they need approval from parents and judge for marriage
the Judge can decide if they are suitable for sexual intercourse or not, also financial and mental abilities, etc.
By the way there is no minimum age for marriage in California as well!!!
Minimum age in California is 18. Getting married younger than 18 requires a few steps:
Quote:If either of you is under eighteen (18) years of age, you will need to make an appointment with a counselor, appear before a superior court judge, show certified copies of your birth certificates, and have one parent appear with you when you apply for the marriage license.
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 9:54 am
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(April 14, 2013 at 6:45 am)Kayenneh Wrote: In all fairness, female phimosis is indeed something that can be a problem for a woman, but I say that there's a distinct difference between a small cut of the "foreskin" to sewing the labia shut or removing the clitoris altogether. -Or......we could just say "okay, this shit is heinous in every particular, maybe we could lay off the mutilation of children's (or anyone's..really) genitalia for awhile". What a way to come into the world..lol. "Hi, welcome to earth - first things first..we're gonna cut ya."
(you wouldn't believe how often we had to remind the crew at the hospital not to go slicing my sons dick. It got to the point where I brought a marker from home and wrote "no circ" on everything, literally everything...even his diapers........just in case some ghoul with a scalpel was wandering through the neo-natal ward thinking "mmm, dick". I really don't get it, if anyone approached any of my children with intent to go ginsoo on their naughty bits I'd lose my shit - entirely lose my shit. I'm losing my shit just thinking about it)
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:06 am
(April 10, 2013 at 8:50 am)paulpablo Wrote: Ok whatever, I propose the exact same system of Islam minus the fact that an adult can marry a 9 year old girl, that's my system, go ahead prove me wrong. Fine,
first you are restricting the freedom of people
Your argument is that a 9 years old is not an adult to choose
but
The average age for Puberty for girls is 12
some will have at 12 while others will have it before or after
Some of those girls will want and will have sex (Fact)
Instead of all the troubles that they will have (like any western non-Islamic country) it is better to allow them to marry
So restricting the marriage age is ridiculous (they will have sex regardless)
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:10 am
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I don't mind restricting a 9 year old girls freedom to get fisted by a 40 yr old man (or vv). I'm not sure how marriage solves the issue. Still a 9 yr old girl getting fisted by a 40 yr old man.
What the problem is?
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:13 am
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(April 14, 2013 at 9:54 am)Rhythm Wrote: -Or......we could just say "okay, this shit is heinous in every particular, maybe we could lay off the mutilation of children's (or anyone's..really) genitalia for awhile". What a way to come into the world..lol. "Hi, welcome to earth - first things first..we're gonna cut ya." It is not mutilation because it is healthy
even for girls
From my personal experience
My wife was not circumcised, till the age of 28 she made it
She was getting a climax very difficulty during intercourse after about 40 minutes
Now after the operation she is getting 3 climaxes in the same period.
The scientific explanation is that a circumcised woman is getting exited more by the inner organs while an non-circumcised one is getting more excitation from the outer part
See article from National Health and Social Life Survey
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:19 am
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See which article? Something tells me I won't find anything in there that modifies the WHO's stance on the issue as a violation of human rights, with no medical benefits whatsoever (complete with a long list of horrible shit).
Sucks to be your wife. Wondering why she decided to do the deed at 28? Any insight there?
(being 28, by the by, I'd say that she can have whatever slicing she wants done - done.)
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:30 am
(April 14, 2013 at 10:13 am)Muslim Scholar Wrote: The scientific explanation is that a circumcised woman is getting exited more by the inner organs while an non-circumcised one is getting more excitation from the outer part
See article from National Health and Social Life Survey
What a load of bull. This is what your article stated:
"While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse, instead needing clitoral stimulation."
Do you know why? It's because "the area near the entrance of the vagina (the lower third) contains nearly 90 percent of the vaginal nerve endings, and there are areas in the anterior vaginal wall and between the top junction of the labia minora and the urethra that are especially sensitive, but intense sexual pleasure and orgasm from vaginal stimulation is occasional because the vagina has significantly fewer nerve endings than the clitoris."
It says nothing about women who have undergone FGM.
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:45 am
(April 14, 2013 at 10:30 am)Kayenneh Wrote: It says nothing about women who have undergone FGM. In most cases clitoris is cut (partly or completely) thus article does in a way say that FGM = no orgasm.
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:46 am
(April 14, 2013 at 10:45 am)SiRade Wrote: In most cases clitoris is cut (partly or completely) thus article does in a way say that FGM = no orgasm.
Yup. But hey, according to MS's anecdotal proof, you get better (vaginal) orgasms when you cut your lady parts. Charming.
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RE: A challenge about women and marriage in Islam
April 14, 2013 at 10:56 am
(April 14, 2013 at 10:46 am)Kayenneh Wrote: (April 14, 2013 at 10:45 am)SiRade Wrote: In most cases clitoris is cut (partly or completely) thus article does in a way say that FGM = no orgasm.
Yup. But hey, according to MS's anecdotal proof, you get better (vaginal) orgasms when you cut your lady parts. Charming.
So you're turning down ask-a-muslim's challenge to improve your sexual pleasure by clitoris removal? Can't say I blame you. I sure wouldn't want to be a muslim lady .. with or without my lady parts intact.
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