Dealing with psychopath nutjobs

[Gilgamesh]

Not commenting at all on this situation, but in general, men do get fucked over by women in court when it comes to a settlement. Sometimes they make a living out of it, marry a guy, get a child, divorce the guy, pick up checks from him every week. Ker-ching! That's partly why I don't plan to get married in the legal sense.

Yep. I don't particularly care about the situation here but it's peculiar how none of you have even considered the woman may be fucking him over. That doesn't justify him raging, of course.

[Jackalope]

Not commenting at all on this situation, but in general, men do get fucked over by women in court when it comes to a settlement. Sometimes they make a living out of it, marry a guy, get a child, divorce the guy, pick up checks from him every week. Ker-ching! That's partly why I don't plan to get married in the legal sense.

Yep. I don't particularly care about the situation here but it's peculiar how none of you have even considered the woman may be fucking him over. That doesn't justify him raging, of course.

LOL, yeah like the $375 a month she gets in child support is life-changing money. They live in poverty.

The guy is a class A dirtbag. He's going through a foreclosure on his house because he hasn't paid a dime on it in three years (I've read the complaint), even though he has the means to do so. He blows his money on drugs, booze, and video poker.

[Gilgamesh]

LOL, yeah like the $375 a month she gets in child support is life-changing money. They live in poverty.

The guy is a class A dirtbag. He's going through a foreclosure on his house because he hasn't paid a dime on it in three years (I've read the complaint), even though he has the means to do so. He blows his money on drugs, booze, and video poker.

Money isn't the only way one can be fucked over. I wasn't even thinking about it that way, in fact. Methinks fucking him over through the kid is a possibility. Not letting him see him when he's supposed and what-not.

[Jackalope]

LOL, yeah like the $375 a month she gets in child support is life-changing money. They live in poverty.

The guy is a class A dirtbag. He's going through a foreclosure on his house because he hasn't paid a dime on it in three years (I've read the complaint), even though he has the means to do so. He blows his money on drugs, booze, and video poker.

Money isn't the only way one can be fucked over. I wasn't even thinking about it that way, in fact. Methinks fucking him over through the kids is a possibility. Not letting him see them when he's supposed to and what-not.

Yeah, that's not happening. I've known them for years. He gets visitation every weekend, just like he's supposed to.

I realize you have no reason to trust me on this, but if you knew this asshole, you wouldn't doubt a word of it.

[ideologue08]

Not letting him see them when he's supposed to and what-not.

I actually read about a guy once whose ex-wife moved from South of England all the way up to Scotland just so he cannot have easy access to the kids, she still gets the weekly checks from him mind you. The feminists have had a rampant victory here in England.

Having said that, this guy in this situation does sound like a real douche.

[Gilgamesh]

Yeah, that's not happening. I've known them for years. He gets visitation every weekend, just like he's supposed to.

I realize you have no reason to trust me on this, but if you knew this asshole, you wouldn't doubt a word of it.

I have no reason not to trust you, either. Maybe you're biased. Maybe he's just an aggressive dick. I can't be sure one way or the other, which is why I don't get too invested in the supposed happenings you describe here.

[Jackalope]

Yeah, that's not happening. I've known them for years. He gets visitation every weekend, just like he's supposed to.

I realize you have no reason to trust me on this, but if you knew this asshole, you wouldn't doubt a word of it.

I have no reason not to trust you, either. Maybe you're biased. Maybe he's just an aggressive dick. I can't be sure one way or the other, which is why I don't get too invested in the supposed happenings you describe here.

Oh, I understand not getting invested in it. I *am* biased, but I've attempted to leave my bias out of it as much as I can. No doubt the dickhead has his own version of the story. His is wrong, though. How's that for bias?

[The Grand Nudger]

375$ a month..for two kids is this? Motherfucker. I pay 680$ a month for one and I don't get to do the visitation thing. Used to be more..but that shit nearly broke my back and I got a reduction.

I still manage not to be a dick to my ex, somehow, who knows how....

[Jackalope]

$375 for one. The other is an adult.

Yeah, it's a travesty. He makes 5 grand a month and his kid gets the table scraps.

Personally? I don't need a fucking court order (and garnishment) to tell me to take care of my kid.

[Doubting Thomas]

You know what they say, there are two sides to every story and then there's the truth.

I'm guessing that CD's version is probably closer to the truth, though.