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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 30, 2014 at 10:27 pm
(This post was last modified: March 30, 2014 at 10:40 pm by *Deidre*.)
(March 30, 2014 at 9:56 pm)Beccs Wrote: (March 30, 2014 at 9:32 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: If in honest, I still have hang ups about "casual sex." I took my pics down in the members photos thread FFS, because I thought they were too sexy. lol Residual hang ups from religion. But I'll get there.
Or I'll become a Mormon Fundamentalist. :p
Jk
You're very right and I'm envious that you have literally what seems to be the ideal situation going on in your own life. I'm happy for you. :-)
I honestly think the secret is to be yourself and do what you're comfortable with and don't let others pressure you into things you don't want to do.
You're gonna make me cry--thanks Beccs. :=)
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 30, 2014 at 10:40 pm
(This post was last modified: March 30, 2014 at 11:12 pm by Phatt Matt s.)
(March 30, 2014 at 9:56 pm)Beccs Wrote: (March 30, 2014 at 9:32 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: If in honest, I still have hang ups about "casual sex." I took my pics down in the members photos thread FFS, because I thought they were too sexy. lol Residual hang ups from religion. But I'll get there.
Or I'll become a Mormon Fundamentalist. :p
Jk
You're very right and I'm envious that you have literally what seems to be the ideal situation going on in your own life. I'm happy for you. :-)
I honestly think the secret is to be yourself and do what you're comfortable with and don't let others pressure you into things you don't want to do.
like join area 69 :p
(March 30, 2014 at 9:32 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: (March 30, 2014 at 5:49 pm)Beccs Wrote: I think, sometime, you just need to throw off your inhibitions and just have good, healthy sex with someone who is like minded.
I'm not necessarily talking about one-night-stands, although they can be fun (yes, I've had one after a breakup of a long-term relationship), or with some slobbering pervert.
I'm talking about some fun with a willing partner. Someone mutually in need of some fun that you've known for a while and trust.
If in honest, I still have hang ups about "casual sex." I took my pics down in the members photos thread FFS, because I thought they were too sexy. lol Residual hang ups from religion. But I'll get there.
)
Yes they were so sexy. When i saw them I felt like a guy in the girls locker room. :p
U r better lookin than your avatars as well.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 9:06 am
Thanks, TC. :-)
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 9:12 am
If it's agreed on with everyone involved then I don't see a problem. Your business. I agree it can ruin friendships if feelings emerged and that can be a risk, but I don't see how it cheapens your worth. I could never do it. I grow emotional attachments too easy.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 12:01 pm
(March 31, 2014 at 9:12 am)ToriJ Wrote: If it's agreed on with everyone involved then I don't see a problem. Your business. I agree it can ruin friendships if feelings emerged and that can be a risk, but I don't see how it cheapens your worth. I could never do it. I grow emotional attachments too easy.
Yea, I hear u. I don't know anymore. Time will tell, I guess.
Thanks for your thoughts.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 12:06 pm
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(March 31, 2014 at 9:12 am)ToriJ Wrote: If it's agreed on with everyone involved then I don't see a problem. Your business. I agree it can ruin friendships if feelings emerged and that can be a risk, but I don't see how it cheapens your worth. I could never do it. I grow emotional attachments too easy.
...But you could have attached FWB.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Friends With Benefits is a great arrangement. You get all the sex, but none of the relationshippy bullshit. What's not to love?
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 3:27 pm
Hey! Some of us like to pretend that putting your penis in a consenting vagina has something more about it than just sex. There is already an industry of pay-per-fuck.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
March 31, 2014 at 9:17 pm
(March 31, 2014 at 3:19 pm)NoraBrimstone Wrote: Friends With Benefits is a great arrangement. You get all the sex, but none of the relationshippy bullshit. What's not to love?
''relationshippy'' I like that.
It sounds good in theory, doesn't it?
(March 31, 2014 at 3:27 pm)LastPoet Wrote: Hey! Some of us like to pretend that putting your penis in a consenting vagina has something more about it than just sex. There is already an industry of pay-per-fuck.
I can get paid? 
I keed, I keed.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 2, 2014 at 5:26 pm
Don't think you'll get paid? Try me?
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