Friends with benefits?

[FlyingNarwhal]

You can spank me any time you want, if our safe word is Xena and you respect the safe word

That's what I like hearing, I'll go Hercules on your ass.

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

You can spank me any time you want, if our safe word is Xena and you respect the safe word

That's what I like hearing, I'll go Hercules on your ass.

But can you "Go the Distance"?


What? It's a song from the Disney movie Hercules... "I Can Go the Distance"...

[FlyingNarwhal]

Ohhh I can definitely go the distance, trust me on that. I think the better question may be, can you keep up?

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

I'm Xena... can YOU keep up?

[FlyingNarwhal]

I'm Xena... can YOU keep up?

I'll give you a battle like you've never seen my warrior princess

[downbeatplumb]

I didn't specify to him, I just asked him a question in passing, but both.

You obviously have very different conversations to me.

[Vegamo]

What do you all think about the concept of ‘friends with benefits?’

Asked two of my offline Christian friends and they say it ‘cheapens your worth in a man’s eyes.’
My offline atheist friends say ‘nothing wrong with it, but if feelings emerge, it can ruin the friendships.’

Hmmm. I don’t want to get serious with anyone, but hanging out with someone in a ‘mutually beneficial’ arrangement, sounds…appealing.

Would be interested in your ideas about it, and if you have stories to share of your own. (good or bad)

I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a girl that I met at the gym.

After my ex girlfriend and I broke up I had sex with her the very next day and ever since we realized that it's just lust and nothing more.

She comes once or twice a week to my place to kick back and enjoy.

The issue is eventually you end up to start behaving like a couple as people tend to start having conversations, giving advice, and eventually ending up in the bed.

If both sides are ok with keeping it casual without having feelings then it's definitely a fun and adventurous experience.

We've been doing it for three months now and unfortunately she's starting to develop feelings and it's time for me to get rigid and cut the cord.

[*Deidre*]

What do you all think about the concept of ‘friends with benefits?’

Asked two of my offline Christian friends and they say it ‘cheapens your worth in a man’s eyes.’
My offline atheist friends say ‘nothing wrong with it, but if feelings emerge, it can ruin the friendships.’

Hmmm. I don’t want to get serious with anyone, but hanging out with someone in a ‘mutually beneficial’ arrangement, sounds…appealing.

Would be interested in your ideas about it, and if you have stories to share of your own. (good or bad)

I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a girl that I met at the gym.

After my ex girlfriend and I broke up I had sex with her the very next day and ever since we realized that it's just lust and nothing more.

She comes once or twice a week to my place to kick back and enjoy.

The issue is eventually you end up to start behaving like a couple as people tend to start having conversations, giving advice, and eventually ending up in the bed.

If both sides are ok with keeping it casual without having feelings then it's definitely a fun and adventurous experience.

We've been doing it for three months now and unfortunately she's starting to develop feelings and it's time for me to get rigid and cut the cord.

Yep, probably the inevitable ending to the fwb ''story.''

I met a guy last weekend when out with friends, and we have been on two dates this weekend. Awesome guy. Sexy, and just awesome. So, going to see where it leads, so far so good.

And leave my friendships with other guys, as just that. Friendships.

Thanks all for your advice.

[Whateverist]

I met a guy last weekend when out with friends, and we have been on two dates this weekend. Awesome guy. Sexy, and just awesome. So, going to see where it leads, so far so good.

And leave my friendships with other guys, as just that. Friendships.

Thanks all for your advice.

Well I sure hope you're the kind to tell if you kiss .. and so on. Wishing you an orgasmic week.

[The Valkyrie]

It might be the way your hair looks in the pic, Rahul. Idk :p

Sorry to hear that my imaginary friend is god...kinda funny though that it scared him? what? lol

I have a date tomorrow night. I met this guy out with friends last weekend, and we are going to dinner and then ...we'll see after that.

I noticed this thread with TC/Phatt Matt as the last poster and it reminded me of his posts here. lol You're missed Matt, if you're reading this.

Cool on meeting someone.

Congratulations.