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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 1:01 am
(September 20, 2015 at 12:43 am)Exian Wrote: Ok, here's a question- How do you feel about dating skinny men?
I'll go ahead and explain why I ask so there isn't a question about my intent. I'm also not going to qualify a lot of what I say, just to move things along. I hope I don't inadvertently sound too insensitive.
I read a study -maybe that's too strong a word- I read a thing that called itself a study without my following up on it that said relationships where the woman is bigger than the man are less likely to succeed. This was a while ago, but I recently brought it up to my ex (We're friends and often talk about our missteps and do a lot of what-iffing, so it wasn't me being weird). I brought it up because the men she has dated after me were progressively larger. She's with a really nice guy now who's probably 200+ pounds (and uglier than sin). Super nice guy though. Anyhow, I mentioned the trend and asked if she was uncomfortable when she was with me because I am skinny. The way I worded it was "I was too skinny for you." She responded with "No, but I always felt too big." I explained that that made me feel like I was too skinny, to which she said "I never thought about it like that." I think it kind of opened her eyes a little in that respect. This is just one aspect of our failed relationship, of course, but it was one that we recently talked about, and now here's this thread, so I thought I'd ask.
What do you think? Is there something to this?
I doubt it, most of my loves have been tall and skinny. Not that I aim for tall and skinny but I do like tall! And I'm very attracted to andro leaning toward feminine body types, and they tend toward skinny. And this is my first serious relationship with a man (well with anyone really), so maybe it's a little different with men. I don't know... I know I'm little less worried about body image with Jo Jo. I rarely draw comparisons. And we don't talk quite the same as I would had I stayed with Jessie. But I find dating a woman is like dating your bestie, except with lots of making out. So I guess when it comes to men other than being a bit wary in the beginning, once I get comfy I usually don't worry too badly.
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:02 am
(September 19, 2015 at 10:40 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: (September 19, 2015 at 10:21 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Have you ever picked your nose?
When I was 5
What? That's the last time you ever picked your nose? Sheesh. You must have buggers hanging off your nostrils then lol. I thoroughly pick mine while I'm showering. Gotta clear those bad boys out.
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:05 am
Yuck. Really?
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:07 am
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(September 20, 2015 at 2:05 am)Losty Wrote: Yuck. Really?
The problem is, if mucus drys out and cakes to the inside of your nose, there is no way to get it out besides shoving something up there and literally picking at it. You can't just blow your nose.
So...
Hi, I'm CL, and I'm a nose picker. 
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:08 am
(September 20, 2015 at 2:02 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (September 19, 2015 at 10:40 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: When I was 5
What? That's the last time you ever picked your nose? Sheesh. You must have buggers hanging off your nostrils then lol. I thoroughly pick mine while I'm showering. Gotta clear those bad boys out.
Um no! I use a tissue.
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:09 am
(September 20, 2015 at 2:07 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (September 20, 2015 at 2:05 am)Losty Wrote: Yuck. Really?
The problem is, if mucus drys out and cakes to the inside of your nose, there is no way to get it out besides shoving something up there and literally picking at it. You can't just blow your nose.
So...
Hi, I'm CL, and I'm a nose picker.
Oh gross CL!
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:11 am
(September 20, 2015 at 2:09 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: (September 20, 2015 at 2:07 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: The problem is, if mucus drys out and cakes to the inside of your nose, there is no way to get it out besides shoving something up there and literally picking at it. You can't just blow your nose.
So...
Hi, I'm CL, and I'm a nose picker.
Oh gross CL!
LOL, not as gross as leaving dried up mucus secretions accumulating up there while you're trying to breath!
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:14 am
(September 20, 2015 at 2:11 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (September 20, 2015 at 2:09 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: Oh gross CL!
LOL, not as gross as leaving dried up mucus secretions accumulating up there while you're trying to breath!
You're a crazy woman!
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 2:26 am
(September 20, 2015 at 2:07 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (September 20, 2015 at 2:05 am)Losty Wrote: Yuck. Really?
The problem is, if mucus drys out and cakes to the inside of your nose, there is no way to get it out besides shoving something up there and literally picking at it. You can't just blow your nose.
So...
Hi, I'm CL, and I'm a nose picker.
I'm not saying I've never picked my nose as an adult because that'd be a lie. But I prefer to use saline. And the thought of a booger getting on me in the shower really freaks me out.
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RE: Ask a fat girl
September 20, 2015 at 4:10 am
Oh, gawds; sometimes it's the best feeling just to mine the fuckers out of there! Nose picking FTW!
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