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How do you handle the bigots in your life?
#11
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
Facebook seems to cause far more problems than it is worth.
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#12
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
Almost every day, I think of the answer Ron Funches gave on the show @Midnight, when asked what Facebook was most useful for.

He answered, "Letting me know which of my white 'friends' is actually a racist."

Since you seem to have already chosen wisely, I'll just leave you with one of my other favorite quotations of all time:

"I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it." - George Bernard Shaw
A Christian told me: if you were saved you cant lose your salvation. you're sealed with the Holy Ghost

I replied: Can I refuse? Because I find the entire concept of vicarious blood sacrifice atonement to be morally abhorrent, the concept of holding flawed creatures permanently accountable for social misbehaviors and thought crimes to be morally abhorrent, and the concept of calling something "free" when it comes with the strings of subjugation and obedience perhaps the most morally abhorrent of all... and that's without even going into the history of justifying genocide, slavery, rape, misogyny, religious intolerance, and suppression of free speech which has been attributed by your own scriptures to your deity. I want a refund. I would burn happily rather than serve the monster you profess to love.

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#13
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
Ugh, what horrible women. I think you handled the situation in the best way. You probably wouldn't have had any impact on people that screwed up. Writing out what you really want to say and not sending it is very therapeutic though! I've done that several times.

I have as little to do with bigots as possible. Instead I try and lead by example.
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#14
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
(September 26, 2015 at 2:57 am)robvalue Wrote: Ugh, what horrible women. I think you handled the situation in the best way. You probably wouldn't have had any impact on people that screwed up. Writing out what you really want to say and not sending it is very therapeutic though! I've done that several times.

I have as little to do with bigots as possible. Instead I try and lead by example.

This is really true.  Writing out the rant, even though I did not send it, was somewhat cathartic. It was like lancing a boil.  After I walked away from it for 10 minutes, I was able to come back, write something civil, and then just get away from them.

Thanks again everyone. :Smile This site is like my support center sometimes. Big Grin
“Eternity is a terrible thought. I mean, where's it going to end?” 
― Tom StoppardRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead
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#15
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
Well let's see it really depends on what kind of bigot.

I'm not racist but… : I will attempt to explain why what you just said is racist.

Niggers!: If you come near me or mine, my boyfriend will find a nice well for your body.

Bi slut, whore, trysexual, can we have a threesome?: well guess who has no chance with this girl! And good job dividing the movement!

You're going to hell!: You're ugly!

Atheism is a religion.: Just like dudeism.
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#16
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
(September 26, 2015 at 3:30 am)Aroura Wrote: This is really true.  Writing out the rant, even though I did not send it, was somewhat cathartic. It was like lancing a boil.  After I walked away from it for 10 minutes, I was able to come back, write something civil, and then just get away from them.

Thanks again everyone. :Smile This site is like my support center sometimes. Big Grin

Now that you are calm and relaxed you can put it behind you.

Until two months later when you can destroy their lives because they won't realise that it's you.
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#17
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
(September 26, 2015 at 4:16 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: Well let's see it really depends on what kind of bigot.

I'm not racist but… : I will attempt to explain why what you just said is racist.

Niggers!: If you come near me or mine, my boyfriend will find a nice well for your body.

Bi slut, whore, trysexual, can we have a threesome?: well guess who has no chance with this girl! And good job dividing the movement!

You're going to hell!: You're ugly!

Atheism is a religion.: Just like dudeism.

Your attempt to explain has failed. :-)
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#18
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
Yea I was further confused by the explanation.
(August 21, 2017 at 11:31 pm)KevinM1 Wrote: "I'm not a troll"
Religious Views: He gay

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Hammy Wrote:and we also have a sheep on our bed underneath as well
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#19
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
I liked the bi-slut threesome bit ending nicely with the division of movement.
Yeah, I'm confused.
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#20
RE: How do you handle the bigots in your life?
When people start to aggravate me I imagine the soothing sounds of the woodchipper and visualize them going into it face first.  Angel
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