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Feeling pretty gutted
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M. we can't help too much without more info. Then we can dissect the fuck out of it...
Ok, so you got this friend, right? What'd she do?
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.  RE: Feeling pretty gutted
October 14, 2015 at 1:57 pm
(This post was last modified: October 14, 2015 at 2:04 pm by MTL.)
In the OP, I said I wasn't going to go into details,
and I feel rather bad, now that I have. Nobody has to read that shit....you're welcome to, of course, but please do NOT feel obliged to come to my pity-party. Thanks again to everyone who was supportive. 
1. Personally I was mostly wondering what circumstances prevent you from simply cutting ties, which I didn't see above, although I admittedly ended up skimming after awhile.
2. Uh, maybe she hates you for having lists of everything she does wrong. RE: Feeling pretty gutted
October 14, 2015 at 2:32 pm
(This post was last modified: October 14, 2015 at 2:34 pm by MTL.)
(October 14, 2015 at 2:28 pm)alpha male Wrote: 1. Personally I was mostly wondering what circumstances prevent you from simply cutting ties, which I didn't see above, although I admittedly ended up skimming after awhile. That IS in the full story...sorry. I can leave anytime I want, but it would fuck me up. It would be best, by far, if I was just allowed to stick to the plan, finish school, work and save money, and leave, then. If I had lots of money, all would be resolved...but I don't. So of course I CAN leave my parents' house, now, but it would ONLY be done to accommodate my sister's petulance, (or my unwillingness to deal with her petulance) ....and at great sacrifice, on my part. And if she doesn't like me having lists of everything she has done wrong, why does she keep antagonizing me, interfering in matters that don't affect her, and ADDING to my list??? The list was compiled in self-defense. I don't do this for fun.
I worked and went to school at the same time. Didn't see it as a "great sacrifice." More like great opportunity. I guess times change.
RE: Feeling pretty gutted
October 14, 2015 at 2:36 pm
(This post was last modified: October 14, 2015 at 2:37 pm by MTL.)
(October 14, 2015 at 2:35 pm)alpha male Wrote: I worked and went to school at the same time. Didn't see it as a "great sacrifice." More like great opportunity. I guess times change. that's not the problem. I don't mind going to work and going to school at the same time, at all. It is not therein that my sacrifice lies. (October 14, 2015 at 2:36 pm)MTL Wrote:(October 14, 2015 at 2:35 pm)alpha male Wrote: I worked and went to school at the same time. Didn't see it as a "great sacrifice." More like great opportunity. I guess times change. So do it, move out, and you won't have to deal with her. (October 14, 2015 at 2:37 pm)alpha male Wrote:(October 14, 2015 at 2:36 pm)MTL Wrote: that's not the problem. As I said, there are other factors that I haven't listed. I've already repeatedly stated that I can move out anytime...but it would involve some major sacrifices. |
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