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Is there a solution to this problem?
#31
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
(June 1, 2010 at 6:31 pm)Scented Nectar Wrote: You're not comfortable with the idea of living with someone you don't know very well, and who you don't have any activities/interests in common. Don't do it, is what I say. Especially if you are expected to support them. If you do move in, I would hope that you arrange a roommate style situation where you equally chip in on things like rent and food etc. If you support her, it's a HUGE commitment.

Also, I hate to be a downer, but if she had unprotected sex in the last few years, which she obviously did, then has she been tested for AIDS? Also, are her drugs hard ones, eg needle ones, eg AIDS again? If you are going to be having sex with her, you might want to know her status.

The whole thing has a bad feel to it. It's good diplomacy is a strong point of yours. Maybe you can stay friends in a manner that causes no hurt feelings. I would run a mile a minute. In my experience, a strong longing for someone does not in the least make up for any problems, other than make you put up with them longer, just dragging things out.

On the other hand, I could be completely wrong and a pessimist about these things. Smile

You know, all those things have entered my mind. I've been thinking about all of this for months. Only to come to one conclusion - walk away.
I'm going to try and stabalize our friendship but relationship wise? Well that's gone like the titanic. 3 years ago, I felt comfortable with the idea of being with her, 3 years later and with the situation changed, I no longer feel the same. Purhaps both my reasoning and feelings are telling me the same thing.
Problems unsolved, despite strong desires for each other are still problems unsolved. Perhaps I'd be doing myself a favour by keeping a distance. To be on the safe side.
I don't like commitments, but I don't mind commiting myself to a lover but to both a lover and a child. This I cannot.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#32
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
Yeah we seem very alike, and I agree on the commitments thing (no surprise there). So, what does she look liike? If you don't mind.....You kept harping on her beauty that I am now curious.
Skwisgaar Skwigelf: ....I love to laugh. Hi.
Grandmother: Hi.
Skwisgaar Skwigelf: Guess what? You are a GMILF. That is a grandmother I'd like to fuck
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#33
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
(June 1, 2010 at 8:27 pm)Disinter Wrote: Yeah we seem very alike, and I agree on the commitments thing (no surprise there). So, what does she look liike? If you don't mind.....You kept harping on her beauty that I am now curious.

We seem very alike. My advice to you, if you find someone very attractive, just grab her before she goes off with someone stupid.Big Grin

As requested, here she is -

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Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#34
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
That's Billie Piper. Fucking hell man, marry her...she's loaded!
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#35
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
Ace Wrote:Love is blind.

Lies. Sleepy
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#36
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
(June 1, 2010 at 9:33 pm)Tiberius Wrote: That's Billie Piper. Fucking hell man, marry her...she's loaded!

When you look at her, you'll soon see why it's so hard for me to let her go. She's very pretty.
She almost never speaks a single word, shy as anything and she just makes you wanna hold her.

Why oh fucking why did she have to go off with that arsehole?!
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#37
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
Because the arsehole happened to come at a time when she wanted him, for what purpose she wanted him?

Cynicism! Big Grin
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#38
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
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#39
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
(June 2, 2010 at 5:25 pm)fr0d0 Wrote: [Image: shower.jpg]

I don't get it.

Big Grin
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#40
RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
Girls get wet in your presence Ace.
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