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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:25 pm
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How do you politely tell someone you aren't attracted to them? I;ve always wondered that...because no matter how polite it seems, on my end....they always take offense.....
(and ofc, when they aren't attracted to me it's just because they have poor taste in men  )
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:26 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 1:56 pm)paulpablo Wrote: Most profiles of women have height discrimination rather than race though.
That's B.S.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:29 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 2:26 pm)RoadRunner79 Wrote: (July 22, 2016 at 1:56 pm)paulpablo Wrote: Most profiles of women have height discrimination rather than race though.
That's B.S. What's bs about it? I might have worded it a bit odd.
It might be more correct to say more profiles I've noticed have height discrimination than racial discrimination.
As in I've seen a few that says black guys only or white guys only but more seem to say something along the lines of "I'm 5 10 guys and 6 ft in heels, that means you need to be at least 6 ft" or something like that.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:31 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 2:29 pm)paulpablo Wrote: (July 22, 2016 at 2:26 pm)RoadRunner79 Wrote: That's B.S. What's bs about it? I might have worded it a bit odd.
It might be more correct to say more profiles I've noticed have height discrimination than racial discrimination.
As in I've seen a few that says black guys only or white guys only but more seem to say something along the lines of "I'm 5 10 guys and 6 ft in heels, that means you need to be at least 6 ft" or something like that.
Because woman love short funny looking guy's... or so I keep telling everyone! 
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:32 pm
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LOL, I don't know if I could have made it in the digital dating age. Profiles and websites and shit. Trawling the interwebs for sex.
I prefer the old fashioned way...where you get consistently drunk at a bar until you meet someone willing to make a huge mistake.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:34 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 2:25 pm)Rhythm Wrote: How do you politely tell someone you aren't attracted to them? I;ve always wondered that...because no matter how polite it seems, on my end....they always take offense.....
(and ofc, when they aren't attracted to me it's just because they have poor taste in men )
I do three responses
1. Don't respond to the message they usually get the hint
2. Politely say no thank you. There's no need to offer reasons. Just say you're not what I'm looking for.
3. Discreetly block that specific person.
There's no need to be outright rude. And I hope you know when adding "no etc.." You're also driving off some of there people you're attracted to.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:36 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 2:31 pm)RoadRunner79 Wrote: (July 22, 2016 at 2:29 pm)paulpablo Wrote: What's bs about it? I might have worded it a bit odd.
It might be more correct to say more profiles I've noticed have height discrimination than racial discrimination.
As in I've seen a few that says black guys only or white guys only but more seem to say something along the lines of "I'm 5 10 guys and 6 ft in heels, that means you need to be at least 6 ft" or something like that.
Because woman love short funny looking guy's... or so I keep telling everyone!
I'd jump on Peter Dinklage
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:38 pm
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LOL, Well...I'm not an internet dater, and I'm pretty firmly locked in..so I'm not driving anyone off...but I wouldn't have cared if I was. I don't mind a little discernment. It's not a web, I'm not a spider.
I'm not really sure what the qualitative difference between being upfront..rude as you call it...and doing what you just mentioned is. Except, ofc, in the case of being rude, the poor bastard knows exactly what it was that you didn't like. No stewing in their own self doubt and misery.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:39 pm
(July 22, 2016 at 12:43 pm)Losty Wrote: (July 20, 2016 at 10:50 am)thesummerqueen Wrote: Why is that? Where do you think the prejudice stems from?
In some places it's a stereotype that bisexual women are actually just attention whores (and actual whores) who never have relationships and will fuck anything that breathes (including your husband).
Being pan for some reason doesn't come with that stereotype. The worst I get is "huh?" or "so that's basically like being a PC bisexual right?" Lol I don't mind either of those.
I use both labels of bi and pan. I'm not fussed about it. I usually just say bi because if I say pan I usually end up having to explain myself which I don't always feel like doing.
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RE: Is white privilege real? To what extent?
July 22, 2016 at 2:41 pm
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(July 22, 2016 at 2:39 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: (July 22, 2016 at 12:43 pm)Losty Wrote: In some places it's a stereotype that bisexual women are actually just attention whores (and actual whores) who never have relationships and will fuck anything that breathes (including your husband).
Being pan for some reason doesn't come with that stereotype. The worst I get is "huh?" or "so that's basically like being a PC bisexual right?" Lol I don't mind either of those.
I use both labels of bi and pan. I'm not fussed about it. I usually just say bi because if I say pan I usually end up having to explain myself which I don't always feel like doing.
Most people insist there's no difference anyways. I always say pan and when people ask if that means bi I just say yes lol
Using pan instead of bi is how I weed out the people I'm not interested in whenever I get a "duh does that mean you like pans? Derp derp" I put a big 'idiot' check by their name in my mental list
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