Sexism - homosexuality

[Adventurer]

Really? This is like being totally insensitive and numb but have a burning heart to please the other - that's opposite to receiving - that's definitely men trying to gratify the women. I'm the type who likes to 'absorb' sexually. So this doesn't make sense, sorry.

What? Who said they have sex to please the other? Yes, they’re insensitive, and they can have insensitive sex.

You just said.

"A man can also feel sexually stimulated by feeling powerful over a woman. A lot of people enjoy being dominant and it gives them pleasure."

I get it that you're talking about men pleasing women who enjoy and are being gratified since these men are 'superior'.

Personally, this is how I interpret your statement, since I always delight in someone superior, sexy and so on to me, enough to dominate and gratify my sexually.

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So, if men perceive women as 'inferior', definitely they are less attracted to them and this affects their orgasmic performance by virtue of receiving gratification.

Incorrect.

Look at the recent news story of Weinstein; he viewed women as inferior, but he also viewed them as attractive, or else he wouldn't have sexually assaulted them or placed them in the roles they got in movies.

Exactly. Hence, my whole question in OP: how can they be heterosexually attracted? It doesn't make sense on the whole.

[J a c k]

Well, looks and attractions are not definitive factors of sexism - sexism also includes factors about one's personality and intelligence, not to mention many other things. So, if men perceive women as 'inferior', definitely they are less attracted to them and this affects their orgasmic performance by virtue of receiving gratification.

Bold mine.

Wrong. How did you arrive to this conclusion? Some people don’t care about personalities or intelligence. They just want the body. Where are you getting your information from?

[Silver]

Exactly. Hence, my whole question in OP: how can they be heterosexually attracted? It doesn't make sense on the whole.

It does make sense. The question still remains, why doesn't it make sense to you?

[Adventurer]

Exactly. Hence, my whole question in OP: how can they be heterosexually attracted? It doesn't make sense on the whole.

It does make sense.  The question still remains, why doesn't it make sense to you?

Attractiveness and superiority, to me, are inextricably intertwined.

[Silver]

Attractiveness and superiority, to me, are inextricably intertwined.

In what way?

[Adventurer]

Well, looks and attractions are not definitive factors of sexism - sexism also includes factors about one's personality and intelligence, not to mention many other things. So, if men perceive women as 'inferior', definitely they are less attracted to them and this affects their orgasmic performance by virtue of receiving gratification.

Bold mine.

Wrong. How did you arrive to this conclusion? Some people don’t care about personalities or intelligence. They just want the body. Where are you getting your information from?

Yes, as I said to L., physique is very important... so since superiority and attractiveness are inextricably intertwined, it doesn't make sense.

[J a c k]

What? Who said they have sex to please the other? Yes, they’re insensitive, and they can have insensitive sex.

You just said.

"A man can also feel sexually stimulated by feeling powerful over a woman. A lot of people enjoy being dominant and it gives them pleasure."

I get it that you're talking about men pleasing women who enjoy and are being gratified since these men are 'superior'.

No. I said some people enjoy being dominant, not dominated. In any case, yeah, there are also people who enjoy being dominated, but that’s off topic.

[Adventurer]

Attractiveness and superiority, to me, are inextricably intertwined.

In what way?

Physical greatness, beauty, charm, fragrance, sexiness, etc.

[Silver]

In what way?

Physical greatness, beauty, charm, fragrance, sexiness, etc.

I'm not seeing a gender differential in what you just provided me.

[J a c k]

Bold mine.

Wrong. How did you arrive to this conclusion? Some people don’t care about personalities or intelligence. They just want the body. Where are you getting your information from?

Yes, as I said to L., physique is very important... so since superiority and attractiveness are inextricably intertwined, it doesn't make sense.

This is your preference. People have different preferences. Some people like people who make them feel superior. It gives them a sense of power and it can definitely turn them on.