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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 4:23 pm
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(January 18, 2018 at 4:18 pm)Shell B Wrote: Oh, Tiberius is fine. We just rape each other on the regular to keep the marriage spicy.
(January 18, 2018 at 4:21 pm)Shell B Wrote: I know what it is, silly.
I'm confused. I thought you asked about it? 
(January 18, 2018 at 4:21 pm)Shell B Wrote: Oh, you're wrong. That's just your microaggression talking.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 4:31 pm
Hammy, poisoning the well wasn't specific to what I was asking about. Khem wasn't poisoning the well. He was strawmanning a bit, but not even really that because he was mostly being flippant. I was joking because I know there isn't a logical fallacy to describe what I was looking for, so I made one up. Once you'd said poisoning the well, I didn't ask what it was. I have some university-level education on the topic and did well with it. I did the more mathy side of it too, much to my woe. If, then for days.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 4:32 pm
Well I'm glad this thread has taken a light hearted turn, finally.
(Not that the issue at hand is light hearted, but I'm glad we are no longer shit slinging)
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 4:32 pm
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(January 18, 2018 at 4:31 pm)Shell B Wrote: If, then for days.
That would be a great title for a textbook.
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 4:58 pm
(January 18, 2018 at 4:32 pm)Khemikal Wrote: (January 18, 2018 at 4:31 pm)Shell B Wrote: If, then for days.
That would be a great title for a textbook.
Right up there with
https://www.amazon.com/There-Errors-Titl...1551114933
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 5:22 pm
(January 18, 2018 at 4:15 pm)Hammy Wrote: (January 18, 2018 at 3:31 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: Yup because passionately making out and even grinding does not translate to . "touch my dick " You can do all that and not want someone to do that .
"Touch my dick"
"Okay now you touch my pussy."
"Okay now you touch my balls."
"Okay now you touch my tits."
Literally every step of the way.
Passionately making out? The way you describe sex... there is no passion at all. How can you even be spontaneous if you have to constantly interrupt the sex to ask questions? You can't.
That's not what's being suggested on college campuses, Hammy.
In situations where there is little or no familiarity AND alcohol is involved, it is imperative to be certain that consent is obtained.
In situations where there is little or no familiarity AND alcohol is involved, it is imperative to recognize when consent is being withdrawn.
There's nothing particularly unreasonable about that.
But since you insist on referring to the hyperbolic scenarios you dream up in your head instead of reality, then yes, I suppose you will continue to find the "notion" of affirmed consent disturbing and unrealistic.
So, carry on.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 5:24 pm
Quote:I don’t disrespect your position here. But, I have to say, it’s been a long time since I’ve had casual sex, but I don’t recall any man asking permission for that, and can’t think of a time I was bothered by that. I guess I’ve been out of the dating scene for too long, which is a good thing. Marriage is way easier. 😛
Then that's your experience. And i respect that's the way you conduct a realtionship . But i plenty of people who are bothered by it . And i just keep that in mind .
Quote:"Touch my dick"
"Okay now you touch my pussy."
"Okay now you touch my balls."
"Okay now you touch my tits."
Literally every step of the way.
Passionately making out? The way you describe sex... there is no passion at all. How can you even be spontaneous if you have to constantly interrupt the sex to ask questions? You can't.
Are you saying talking during sex is not passionate ? Are saying it can't be spontaneous? My experience says otherwise .
Quote:Oh gosh, I thought he was saying he did that even with his long term relationships lol. Ok, a little less weird then. But still seems awkward.
Nope only non primary dates or Casual sex partners were problems could start . With my primary partners we have safe words .
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January 18, 2018 at 5:40 pm
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 5:50 pm
Heh I used to think I could have a poly relationship like tiz. Now I can’t even enter a relationship with one. I like silence and personal space too much. Fuck keeping two people happy lol
Plus... I don’t make enough money to feed so many mouths. And I’m too lazy for so much sex. Yawn.
But... high five and stuff. To each their own. 
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 5:56 pm
(January 18, 2018 at 5:50 pm)J a c k Wrote: Heh I used to think I could have a poly relationship like tiz. Now I can’t even enter a relationship with one. I like silence and personal space too much. Fuck keeping two people happy lol
Plus... I don’t make enough money to feed so many mouths. And I’m too lazy for so much sex. Yawn.
But... high five and stuff. To each their own.
We go through similar changes sometimes!
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