Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?

[pocaracas]

I like the contrast between light blue eyes and chestnut brown hair. Brown and blue are kind of opposites on the color wheel, so it really makes both features stand out.

Blue eyes really do go well with dark hair

Pretty, yes...

But green have a special effect on me.

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[BrianSoddingBoru4]

I ask a friend of mine out on a date she says she will have to think about it because she recently returned from a year long service project and is having difficulty adjusting. Now, I think she is just not that interested. I have consulted others and they have told me that I am not entitled to know the reason why. Even though i think it's fair if she would just tell me straight up she isn't interested. I mean I have tried being persistent. I have talked to her about it twice, and she throws out the same response. I don't want to harass her, but part of me thinks that she should just be straight up and tell me I'm not interested. Would it be too much for me to say this? I mean it's not going to hurt my feelings if she does. I would also let her know that too.

Also, as someone who is normally shy and constantly being told that's my problem this is a big deal for me. I'm actually trying to grow some balls and stick up for myself, don't women like that?



I trust your wisdom on this. I'm not trying to be a dick either.

Simply don't give up.  I was persistent with a girl I wanted to date for over a month.  I kept at it until she said those magical words I longed to hear...

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'OK, fine.  Untie me and I'll go out with you.'

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Boru

[CapnAwesome]

Blue eyes really do go well with dark hair

Pretty, yes...

But green have a special effect on me.

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Did the topic of this thread turn into post pictures of girls who'll never fuck you?

I don't care about eye color. I like girls who wear glasses.

[Shell B]

I like the contrast between light blue eyes and chestnut brown hair. Brown and blue are kind of opposites on the color wheel, so it really makes both features stand out.

Blue eyes really do go well with dark hair

That's literally my eye color and hair color. To be clear, I don't look that good. I think it's just her face.

[The Industrial Atheist]

My guess is she likes you enough as a friend to not want to hurt you by giving you reasons why she doesn't want to date you. In my very limited experience I don't believe I was ever given reasons. I don't see it as a good or bad thing, just a thing.

At least she's not trying to be mean or purposely act undesirable to emphasize the point.

[Mr.wizard]

If girls are interested they will usually at least go on a date to see if there is any kind of spark or if your boyfriend material. If they won't even let you buy them coffee, you have no shot.

[Seraphina]

I ask a friend of mine out on a date she says she will have to think about it because she recently returned from a year long service project and is having difficulty adjusting. Now, I think she is just not that interested. I have consulted others and they have told me that I am not entitled to know the reason why. Even though i think it's fair if she would just tell me straight up she isn't interested. I mean I have tried being persistent. I have talked to her about it twice, and she throws out the same response. I don't want to harass her, but part of me thinks that she should just be straight up and tell me I'm not interested. Would it be too much for me to say this? I mean it's not going to hurt my feelings if she does. I would also let her know that too.

Also, as someone who is normally shy and constantly being told that's my problem this is a big deal for me. I'm actually trying to grow some balls and stick up for myself, don't women like that?



I trust your wisdom on this. I'm not trying to be a dick either.

She's not interested in dating you. If she were, she wouldn't tell you that she has to think about it. If you're looking for someone to date, it's time to respect your friend's answer and move on.
She gave you a reason why - "recently returned from a year long service project and is having difficulty adjusting".
Persistently asking a woman who's already expressed disinterest in dating you for a date is not ballsy and sticking up for yourself. It's far ballsy-ier to accept it and move on.

-Teresa

[Losty]

Blue eyes really do go well with dark hair

That's literally my eye color and hair color. To be clear, I don't look that good. I think it's just her face.

For the record, I think you’re gorgeous.

[Tiberius]

For the record, I think you’re gorgeous.

Me too.

[KevinM1]

Really? I like light blue eyes the best. But Basically any color is better than brown imho.