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[Serious] For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
#11
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
Evangelicals speak in terms of "knowing" Jesus; Catholics don't.

As a Catholic kid, when someone would ask if I "knew" Jesus,
the question always seemed absurd.  Jesus lived 2000 years
ago; how could I know him?  I knew of  him, of course.

And thus did they consign me to Hellfire.   Diablo
-- 
Dr H


"So, I became an anarchist, and all I got was this lousy T-shirt."
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#12
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
Empty really, I never felt god, I felt something, but it wasn't Jesus or god. More so just my gut feeling or intuition speaking. there was never the promised divine feeling that my dad supposedly go. I guess I just wasn't meant to be a Christian.
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#13
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(January 10, 2019 at 7:17 pm)Grandizer Wrote: Just trying the Serious option out.

So I've been wondering, we have some current Christians who believe that once a person is saved, they are forever saved, and that if you really knew Jesus, you would be a true Christian and never stop being one (or something of the sort) ... so anyone who claims they knew Jesus but no longer believe was never a true Christian in the first place (according to them).

But my problem with this reasoning is I'm not convinced at all that any current Christian "knows" Jesus in a way that is clearly and conclusively different from how former Christians "knew" Jesus. And I remember making a thread asking Christians themselves to explain to me what they really meant by "knowing" Jesus, and while I got answers, I didn't get exactly what I was asking for in these answers. They were rather vague and failed to clearly distinguish the kind of knowledge former Christians had and the kind of knowledge current Christians have regarding Christ.

So this time, I want to ask those who used to be Christian, especially of the "I had a personal relationship with Jesus" type of Christian, what exactly did it feel like to "know" Jesus? And what would you say to current Christians who are convinced they "know" Jesus and think you never truly "knew" him yourself?

By the way, this is not to exclude theists (or atheists who were never Christians) from coming in here to discuss, they're very well free to do so. But the question is really for former Christians.

I felt the presence of god many times as a Christian, this was always the result of achieving an emotional state induced by meditation, listening to music, or a compelling sermon by the pastor. Add to that the group dynamic by being in a select group that shared your beliefs and feelings and it lent itself to a perception of being part of something bigger than yourself. I would even have conversations with Jesus/god which was me just talking to myself, maybe even remembering bible scriptures that I had read before as a response in my conversation with myself.

Of course being a reasonably intelligent person, you would realize what you were doing is merely having a conversation with an imaginary friend, this is where intellectual honesty comes in. It is very comforting to think that an omni-deity cares about you and communicates with you through subjective memories and shallow interpretations of events, such as "I prayed to god for my headache to go away and it went away" type of ad-hoc mental processes.

Coming to terms with what I was actually doing to prop up this Jesus-is-my-buddy mentality was somewhat sad, yet empowering, as I slowly re-taught myself that all of these conversations I was having with Jesus was just me talking to myself.

My own perspective on this head game that Christians play on themselves, makes me rather impatient when I hear their nonsense about hearing the voice of god or hearing about their prayers being answered. I try to have an empathic view towards people for doing this, it is so easy and so comforting and so common for people to engage in this activity, yet it is so wrong and so dishonest. It's bad enough that many people are willing to lie to themselves, but as soon as your little voices from within claim to know what's best for other people, then I can get hostile pretty quickly towards this kind of sophistry.

This has been my own journey, learning how to be understanding towards people, but trying not to judge them too harshly for them behaving just like our primate, pattern-seeking brains have evolved us to behave and think.
Using the supernatural to explain events in your life is a failure of the intellect to comprehend the world around you. -The Inquisition
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#14
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(January 10, 2019 at 9:19 pm)wyzas Wrote: Stopped being a christian around age 12 to 13 so I'll not be much help. As far as I remember I never knew jesus, I only knew of jesus. 

I was just doing shit my parents told/made me do.

Can I ask what it was that made you a christian before that age?
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#15
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(March 14, 2019 at 3:40 am)Catharsis Wrote:
(January 10, 2019 at 9:19 pm)wyzas Wrote: Stopped being a christian around age 12 to 13 so I'll not be much help. As far as I remember I never knew jesus, I only knew of jesus. 

I was just doing shit my parents told/made me do.

Can I ask what it was that made you a christian before that age?

Parental programming.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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#16
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(March 14, 2019 at 5:29 am)wyzas Wrote:
(March 14, 2019 at 3:40 am)Catharsis Wrote: Can I ask what it was that made you a christian before that age?

Parental programming.

and what made you atheist?
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#17
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(January 10, 2019 at 9:19 pm)wyzas Wrote: Stopped being a christian around age 12 to 13 so I'll not be much help. As far as I remember I never knew jesus, I only knew of jesus. 

I was just doing shit my parents told/made me do.

Ditto!
God thinks it's fun to confuse primates. Larsen's God!






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#18
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
To me, "knowing" Jesus basically just meant that you accepted his gift of salvation. Being at least somewhat familiar with his Word (in the Bible) and making a semi-decent effort to avoid being evil, oh say....22-78% of the time, because that's probably not what Jesus would want.

When I was a Christian, I never got the sense of knowing as in actually having a two-way dialogue with actual  within my own mind. I was well-aware that the moments in which Jesus or God was "speaking" to me was essentially my own inner dialogue, to which I applying Biblical principles.

Other believers, of course, would insist that this WAS God, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit speaking directly to me, but I was unconvinced. I know what my own brain sounds like.
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#19
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
(March 14, 2019 at 7:38 am)Thena323 Wrote: I know what my own brain sounds like.

"Though shalt not kill, my child..and..also, is that kebab place down the corner open?"  Wink
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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#20
RE: For former Christians, what was it like to "know" Christ?
He was a quiet guy. So quiet, it's like he wasn't even there.
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