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RE: Having, collecting and hoarding
April 13, 2020 at 12:01 pm
I think it probably only counts as hoarding when it starts to have a negative impact on your life.
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RE: Having, collecting and hoarding
April 13, 2020 at 12:16 pm
(April 13, 2020 at 12:01 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: I think it probably only counts as hoarding when it starts to have a negative impact on your life.
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What about when it has a negative impact on other people's lives? I happened to have stocked up on TP just before hoarding it became a thing; but I'm going to run out eventually and the paper products shelves are still wiped out every time I go to the grocery. These people need to get it together.
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RE: Having, collecting and hoarding
April 13, 2020 at 12:30 pm
Collecting can get strange. Some years back I purchased a tchotchke of the lighthouse I was born near. I also grabbed a throw pillow to put on a wooden rocker with images of lighthouses that are on the same string of islands. The Cape Hatteras light soon became the go-to gift for me. I even have one that is striped red and green with Santa and his reindeer circling around it. I finally had to ask everyone to stop. Currently the pillow remains on the rocker and two tiny lighthouses are on a shelf in the office here at home. I wasn't collecting all that stuff, I was being tortured by where to put it all (even the stuff I didn't like) so as not to hurt anyone's feelings. It was an assault.
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RE: Having, collecting and hoarding
April 13, 2020 at 12:35 pm
My mother had one ceramic owl. Soon, she had dozens of tchotchke owls as people thought she collected owls.
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RE: Having, collecting and hoarding
April 13, 2020 at 12:41 pm
(April 13, 2020 at 12:35 pm)Mister Agenda Wrote: My mother had one ceramic owl. Soon, she had dozens of tchotchke owls as people thought she collected owls.
My daughter's grandmother-in-law suffered the same fate with roosters.
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