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RE: Hello everyone
December 15, 2021 at 8:21 pm
(December 15, 2021 at 12:46 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Hey everyone, hope everyone is still staying safe and healthy as we approach Christmas.
So, since I announced my pregnancy here, I should update yall that there was no heartbeat at my ultra sound yesterday. I will be getting a D&C tomorrow so that I don't have to wait for the baby to pass naturally.
I'm sad of course, but doing okay. I'm grateful I got to have one healthy child, and if this was gonna happen I'm glad it happened now and not much farther along like the first time.
I'm at the playground right now, watching my daughter singing and playing, and feeling pretty good. Thank yall for all your support. ❤
Oh, CL! I’m so, so sorry. 😞 You are right though, that beautiful little girl is everything, and she’s so lucky to have you. ❤️
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RE: Hello everyone
December 15, 2021 at 8:44 pm
I don't know what to say CL, can't imagine what you are going through. Hang in there.
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December 16, 2021 at 3:24 am
(This post was last modified: December 16, 2021 at 3:25 am by vulcanlogician.)
That sucks, CL. So sorry.
Glad you're happy watching your daughter play. I've found that when something bad happens, it's best to try not to concentrate on it too much. It'll fuck you up if you do. Concentrate on happy things as much as possible. Don't worry. It'll end up being "concentrated-on enough" when it's all said and done. Relish what joy you can find in the meantime.
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RE: Hello everyone
December 16, 2021 at 9:09 am
Thanks everyone. I'm doing well.
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RE: Hello everyone
December 16, 2021 at 12:32 pm
I'm sorry for your loss, CL.