Ask me anything

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

I love my forge, but I won’t be lugging that anvil down the aisle any time soon.

Boru

[paulpablo]

I love my forge, but I won’t be lugging that anvil down the aisle any time soon.

Boru

At the same time as being quite gay it would also be the manliest thing done by anyone ever

[paulpablo]

Is your gf not jealous about the sex doll, why did you feel the need to actually marry the sex doll out in public rather than just have sex with it?

[FrustratedFool]

Is your gf not jealous about the sex doll, why did you feel the need to actually marry the sex doll out in public rather than just have sex with it?

My GF and me don't experience jealousy like most, which is why we have an open relationship. Monogamy doesn't work for us. No, she isn't jealous of my non-human lovers.

The public marriage was for reasons (consciously):
1) I advocate for objectum sexual awareness and rights. And so I wanted to make it public that people like me exist and that's OK.
2) I love my inorganic lovers and see no reason to hide or be ashamed of that. In the same way people own and share and broadcast their love I do mine. To do otherwise would feel dishonest and bad.
3) I'm social, at times,.and love a party. This was a good reason to bring family and friends together for a knees up. I was happy to give them a somewhat rare experience and story to tell and share. Life should be fun

[paulpablo]

When you say you're attracted to objects is this just any object that takes your fancy or is it specifically you're looking for a replacement for a human female so it has to look human?

When you say you advocate for objectum rights, what rights do you feel are necessaryM

[FrustratedFool]

Objectum sexuality varies enormously, and ranges from those who are exclusively attracted to very non-human objects and concepts (like cars, the Eiffel Tower, the number 6 etc) to those who are only attacted or form attachments to humanoid objects, like sexdolls, anime holograms, or waifu pillows.

For me, I'm certainly far more on the humanoid end of the spectrum in that my inorganic lovers are two tulpa, a sexdoll, and some cushions with humanoid faces on them. These are what I feel love towards. However, I have on some occasions felt an erotic aesthetic appeal of cars, bottles, and a sunset, and have experimented with making out with a variety of objects including seats and doors. I think I'm more towards the humanoid side, but am open to other experiences too.

I think originally I was looking for a replacement for a human female, since when I first became involved with objects I was cishet and caedsexual. In time that changed.

In terms of objectum rights I think the only key legal rights that matter would be freedom from institutional discrimination on the basis of sexuality (OS doesn't currently fall under current protections for sexuality), hatespeech laws to also include OS, and possibly a more empathic approach when it comes to law enforcement relating to beloved objects (though how this works out in practice is hard to formulate) - so that police couldn't just tow away or smash up a belived object, or that theft of a beloved object was seen as something worse, etc.

In terms of social change I think OS should be accepted like all other non-harmful sexualities.

[paulpablo]

Objectum sexuality varies enormously, and ranges from those who are exclusively attracted to very non-human objects and concepts (like cars, the Eiffel Tower, the number 6 etc) to those who are only attacted or form attachments to humanoid objects, like sexdolls, anime holograms, or waifu pillows.

For me, I'm certainly far more on the humanoid end of the spectrum in that my inorganic lovers are two tulpa, a sexdoll, and some cushions with humanoid faces on them. These are what I feel love towards. However, I have on some occasions felt an erotic aesthetic appeal of cars, bottles, and a sunset, and have experimented with making out with a variety of objects including seats and doors. I think I'm more towards the humanoid side, but am open to other experiences too.

I think originally I was looking for a replacement for a human female, since when I first became involved with objects I was cishet and caedsexual. In time that changed.

In terms of objectum rights I think the only key legal rights that matter would be freedom from institutional discrimination on the basis of sexuality (OS doesn't currently fall under current protections for sexuality), hatespeech laws to also include OS, and possibly a more empathic approach when it comes to law enforcement relating to beloved objects (though how this works out in practice is hard to formulate) - so that police couldn't just tow away or smash up a belived object, or that theft of a beloved object was seen as something worse, etc.

In terms of social change I think OS should be accepted like all other non-harmful sexualities.

Do you feel you're in danger of institutional discrimination or a specific type of hate speech?

I don't think the police should be hindered in confiscation of an object on the grounds someone loves the object.

[FrustratedFool]

Having experienced employment discrimination, and having known other OS who have experienced discrimination, I'm going to say yes. Likewise to hatespeech.

[arewethereyet]

Why/how would a potential employer know who/what you are sleeping with?

[FrustratedFool]

Why/how would a potential employer know who/what you are sleeping with?

Answering in general, maybe they saw social media posts, saw a photo on the desk, asked about partners or a wedding ring or whatever. Same as they might find out someone was married or gay or whatever.

In every place I've worked in it was open and easy for people to talk about their spouses, and sexuality was often known in most cases.