Your Ideal Relationship Arrangement

[Ahriman]

I want to kiss girls, and have sex with any female (unless they're elderly), at least in some kind of way. Guys have to be more attractive, if I'm going to get with them. I don't want to kiss guys, or cuddle with them, or do any lovey dovey shit with them. To me, guys are just for sex. Girls might actually receive some love. My affection for others is like a bunch of bread crumbs, they get tossed out at random and whoever gets to them first should consider themselves lucky.

Do you think having such an attitude and manner of expression is likely to endear others to you?  I suspect not.  It seems likely that this way of talking, and the psychology behind it, will hinder you from relationships.

Out of curiosity, what does elderly mean to you?

Well you're kind of right, I haven't been with a female a quite a while. But I have been with a few guys recently. Elderly means 70 or older.

[zebo-the-fat]

Happily married for 35 years and counting (second time for both of us.... you learn by your mistakes!) wouldn't change a thing

[arewethereyet]

Do you think having such an attitude and manner of expression is likely to endear others to you?  I suspect not.  It seems likely that this way of talking, and the psychology behind it, will hinder you from relationships.

Out of curiosity, what does elderly mean to you?

Well you're kind of right, I haven't been with a female a quite a while. But I have been with a few guys recently. Elderly means 70 or older.

Whew - I have a couple more years of not being elderly.  

[arewethereyet]

I have been married (this time0 for almost 32 years. Is it perfect, far from it. But we have lasted this long so I suppose we will probably be together till one of us dies.

We have sort of decided that it's doubtful anyone else would put up with the other one so, there you have it.

I am pretty much an introvert and he is a homebody though more social if around people.

There are days though...

I had planned to leave when my son graduated in 2005. But the economy went to crap in SC and I lost my job and finding another was nearly impossible, at least not one that was comparable. Next thing I knew husband transferred to Texas and I had little choice but to go along. Was a really rough few years here but has evened out a bit.

[Ahriman]

Well you're kind of right, I haven't been with a female a quite a while. But I have been with a few guys recently. Elderly means 70 or older.

Whew - I have a couple more years of not being elderly.  

You don't look a day over 50.

[Silver]

We have sort of decided that it's doubtful anyone else would put up with the other one so, there you have it.

This is how the boyfriend and I feel after 20+ years.

[FrustratedFool]

I couldn't imagine ever going back to either a 'settle' relationship or monogamy. Certainly a settle relationship as a default position seems horribly depressing. I'd rather be alone.

[arewethereyet]

Whew - I have a couple more years of not being elderly.  

You don't look a day over 50.

You sweet talker, you.

50 was a long time ago...I still had my boobs then.

[Gawdzilla Sama]

Do you think having such an attitude and manner of expression is likely to endear others to you?  I suspect not.  It seems likely that this way of talking, and the psychology behind it, will hinder you from relationships.

Out of curiosity, what does elderly mean to you?

Well you're kind of right, I haven't been with a female a quite a while. But I have been with a few guys recently. Elderly means 70 or older.

Whew, dodged that bullet.

[The Valkyrie]

Have lots of money/be financially secure. Have own property.

Live alone.

Casual flings occasionally.

Basically, what I have.