(June 5, 2016 at 11:35 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: I've said so many goodbyes over the years ... but they never get easier. Sorry you're hurting, hon.Maybe. Writing always helps. Thanks, thump. (Hug)
Perhaps it might help to write your feelings down, in detail?
(June 5, 2016 at 11:54 pm)madog Wrote:(June 5, 2016 at 11:42 pm)Mamacita Wrote: True.
Nah, we're friends. Almost family. 16 years is a long time. Thanks, man. I'll call him when he gets off the plane.
A quick move after an argument with a friend may just be a hint that he wants it to go further than your present friendship .... I don't know your circumstances but to go so suddenly appears to be intended to be dramatic ... you don't normally go to such lengths if you don't have strong feelings.
Has he been hinting for a closer relationship?
I don't understand his signals. That's why we had the fight. He expected me to know what he was going through, but he wouldn't say what it was. He just gave me the silent treatment. Ugh. In any case, though, he's my friend. I don't want it to change. It is what it is.
"Hipster is what happens when young hot people do what old ladies do." -Exian
