(August 30, 2017 at 10:42 am)Jehanne Wrote: She's 6 and was having a "big questions" moment yesterday evening, talking about death. I told her that "it happens to everyone" but that for her, "it is a long, long time away..." I told her that when a person dies that person is buried in the ground, but then she got really upset and started crying, asking, "That's what they will do to me?! Put me in the ground!" And, so, I soon told her that after awhile that the person turns into an angel, and a short time later, she got very happy and we went online and a looked at pictures of angels, and then, lots of questions about what angels eat, the clothes they wear, whether they visit the Earth or leave it, etc., etc. We also talked about guinea pig angels and cats angels, etc.
I am not raising my kids to be atheists, but to think for themselves, and so, we have taught our kids about the existence of Santa Claus, fairies, etc., and I figure, when they get old enough, they'll figure it out. Still, I have always known how religious faith can be comforting, especially, to a little child, but to see it in action, was a bit of an epiphanic moment for me.
Still, though, I don't believe in any of it, like Santa Claus, but I was so happy to see my little girl comforted.
1. Her questions about angels Adorable (especially" pig angels and cats angels,")
2. When i told my nephew about death . I just repeated what my grandmother told me . That when you die you simply go back to the earth and become part of something greater.
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.
Inuit Proverb
Inuit Proverb
