RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
December 23, 2017 at 12:43 pm
(This post was last modified: December 23, 2017 at 12:50 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(December 23, 2017 at 12:33 pm)Hammy Wrote:(December 22, 2017 at 1:45 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: People who withhold sex from their spouse simply because they're not feeling horny.
That seems like a pretty fucking apt reason to me
The idea is to still try and not become complacent in your marriage and towards your spouse. If I have a headache, am tired, am upset about something, or of there are any issues going on in the marriage, those are valid reasons to deny sex to my spouse (and vice versa). But if I'm fine and just not feeling particularly horny, saying no just out of laziness isn't cool and can be neglectful to my spouse, especially if it becomes habit. What if a person only feels horny like once every month, is it right then to deny sex to your husband or wife except for once a month? I don't think so. I think you have a duty to your spouse to still try, even when you don't particularly feel like it. And not just with sex, but its the same thing with general affection and other things too. Is it right to withhold affection from your spouse unless you are feeling like It? Imo, no.
(December 23, 2017 at 12:37 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:(December 23, 2017 at 12:32 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I love how this thread turned into sex talk
A lot more interesting than taxes.
(December 23, 2017 at 12:33 pm)Hammy Wrote: That seems like a pretty fucking apt reason to me.
Until you aren't getting laid enough because your partner isn't horny. Catholic Lady is right, married people, of both genders need to put out when their partners want. Elsewise it's a major relationship killer. Even if you aren't horny in that exact moment, you will be. Unless the person is a total unteachable doofus in bed.
Another super important one is that both partners initiate sex. Nothing is more annoying then being the only one. But as an atheist free of moral hang ups, I can just find myself a nice and horny girl.
I was gonna say the same. Of all the times I don't feel like it but do anyway, I always end up enjoying it once things get going.
Id probably be satisfied with once a week, but Mr wants more. I'm fine with that.
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