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[GrandizerII]

Your husband is a lucky man.

That's about a months worth for me.

In Catholicism married couples are not supposed to deny each other of sex unless there is legitimate reason. "I'm not in the mood", is usually not a good enough reason unless there is something else going on. Otherwise, if you're simply just not feeling horny, try harder. For your spouse.

(Eta, those last couple sentences were not directed at you. They are directed at the People who withhold sex from their spouse simply because they're not feeling horny.)

Im sorry, but thats just selfish. If my partner isnt in the mood, I dont demand that she try harder. I just let her be or cuddle instead, and vice versa. People arent always going to feel horny when Im feeling horny.

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I love how this thread turned into sex talk

A lot more interesting than taxes.

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That seems like a pretty fucking apt reason to me.

Until you aren't getting laid enough because your partner isn't horny. Catholic Lady is right, married people, of both genders need to put out when their partners want. Elsewise it's a major relationship killer. Even if you aren't horny in that exact moment, you will be. Unless the person is a total unteachable doofus in bed.

Another super important one is that both partners initiate sex. Nothing is more annoying then being the only one. But as an atheist free of moral hang ups, I can just find myself a nice and horny girl.

What a selfish thing to say. Fuck how your partner feels. If youre horny she better be horny as well. Right? Lol ...