Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?

[henryp]

Is it really a stretch?  How do the ladies fair in Hollywood?  They certainly become much better actors as they get older.  But they're for the most part shuffled off, and the only hope is to get enough plastic surgery to pass themselves off as younger.

I didn't think this was a contested idea.  

And older women are competing with younger women when it comes to desirable older men.  So who's that leaving in the prospect pool?

It is still condescending, and still speculation, yes.

Lets breakdown your argument.

You are using women actors in Hollywood as a representative sample for half of the human race.  That's a great idea. [/sarcasm]
Women in Hollywood have a 'shelf date'.
'Shelf dates' are bad for polyamory.
Therefore all women are going to have a problem with polyamory?

This is not a valid or sound argument.  I don't know how to make it any more plain.

It definitely sounds condescending. But that's just because we treat women like shit. Reality is pretty condescending to women, so if I describe reality, and it seems condescending, I think I'm in the ballpark.

You have to flesh it out a little.  Why does Hollywood prefer younger women even though older women tend to be better actresses?  Hollywood is in the money making business.  Who they pick is a reflection of the populace.

But you can see it anywhere really.  Ever see an athletes wife?  Or a billionaire?  Basically, almost any time a guy can pick whoever he wants, chubby 50 year old ladies are not in the picture.
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Shelf dates are bad for any person in any competition.  

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I didn't say polyamory is bad for all women.  I said there's a lot not to like for older women, particularly if they aren't willing to settle for what they can get.

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What I wonder, regarding the OP, is if he could Weird Science himself a ladyfriend, would he do that, or just prefer being alone.  You can answer as well there if you want.  

Maybe one day in the future I would, but at the moment, no. I am quite content with what I have and who I know at the moment.

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If hot loving spouse with lots of sex was on the table, would as many people still prefer to photograph scenery or jerkoff by themselves?  But that's not really the option being rejected.  He's rejecting an offer to be setup on a blind double date which is probably going to lead nowhere worthwhile at the cost of having to go through with the anxiety of going on the date to begin with.  

I'd take casual sex any day. But a spouse? No thanks. Not just any spouse anyway. It would have to be the love of my life...

Would you not Weird Science yourself the love of your life? I think by design, a spouse is supposed to be the love of your life.