RE: Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?
March 8, 2018 at 8:22 pm
(March 8, 2018 at 7:04 pm)wallym Wrote:(March 8, 2018 at 3:56 pm)Hammy Wrote: Yes it's far more normal and common to have no relationship experience by than people let on. There's lots of people like you and me, OP, who don't get out much, and even if there isn't, I don't care. We're fine as we are.
Me? I've been happily married for quite a while. Made a kid and everything.
What I wonder, regarding the OP, is if he could Weird Science himself a ladyfriend, would he do that, or just prefer being alone. You can answer as well there if you want.
My guess is that people aren't choosing aloneness over what CL has. If hot loving spouse with lots of sex was on the table, would as many people still prefer to photograph scenery or jerkoff by themselves? But that's not really the option being rejected. He's rejecting an offer to be setup on a blind double date which is probably going to lead nowhere worthwhile at the cost of having to go through with the anxiety of going on the date to begin with.
If I'm right, what CL is doing is normal, and what he's doing is also normal. But I'm not sure his conclusion, which is "no interest in a relationship" is accurately representing himself. Hopefully, they return, and we can get some clarification, because it's interesting.
Yeah, I agree with this. I don't think being single is abnormal. I think legitimately not being interested in having sex and/or not being interested in that type of companionship at all, is abnormal. Not saying it's wrong. Just saying it certainly is not normal.
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