RE: Grief and how it sucks
May 1, 2018 at 7:35 pm
(This post was last modified: May 1, 2018 at 7:37 pm by Joods.)
Dei,
Everyone is different. I lost my father 22 years ago and it still hurts as much today as it did when I got the phone call saying he had passed away. And I don't know. Maybe losing a parent is different than losing a grandparent because when you lose a parent, you lose half of who made you. Maybe not. I can't answer for anyone else. All I know is that after two decades, I still miss my daddy.
Hugs girlie. I hope things get better for you.
I don't agree. Everyone needs to heal in their own time. See my post above. 22 years doesn't make me abnormal and there shouldn't be a stigma of some sort of time limit one has to grieve by.
Everyone is different. I lost my father 22 years ago and it still hurts as much today as it did when I got the phone call saying he had passed away. And I don't know. Maybe losing a parent is different than losing a grandparent because when you lose a parent, you lose half of who made you. Maybe not. I can't answer for anyone else. All I know is that after two decades, I still miss my daddy.
Hugs girlie. I hope things get better for you.
(May 1, 2018 at 7:04 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: If this torments you (and apparently it does) seek therapy. You need to find resolution/relief. After 3 years it's time to actively deal with it.
I don't agree. Everyone needs to heal in their own time. See my post above. 22 years doesn't make me abnormal and there shouldn't be a stigma of some sort of time limit one has to grieve by.
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