She might have been taking an unwise risk, and it might be a bit selfish for her to be raising kids at an age when they're bound to lose her fairly early on in their lives (though lots of kids lose their parents and turn out fine, as Lilly Blossom said, and besides it's not uncommon for grandparents to raise kids). But I don't think calling her a "super egotistical hypocrite" is deserved...or accurate. Even if she messed up (and we can't say for sure if she has yet...it may work out for the best) she's probably a perfectly decent person in other areas of her life.
So she's older and desperately wants kids? That's not uncommon. It may be selfish, but it certainly doesn't make her "super egotistical" and honestly, I don't even understand where you are getting "hypocrite" from (did she speak against older people raising children?) So she's not the ideal parent? Few parents are. If we only allowed perfect parents to raise children, we'd have to stop reproducing. This may not be the ideal situation, but it's not a guaranteed disaster, and who knows? It may end up being very worthwhile. Those two kids may grow up to be wonderful people who make a positive difference to humanity.
So she's older and desperately wants kids? That's not uncommon. It may be selfish, but it certainly doesn't make her "super egotistical" and honestly, I don't even understand where you are getting "hypocrite" from (did she speak against older people raising children?) So she's not the ideal parent? Few parents are. If we only allowed perfect parents to raise children, we'd have to stop reproducing. This may not be the ideal situation, but it's not a guaranteed disaster, and who knows? It may end up being very worthwhile. Those two kids may grow up to be wonderful people who make a positive difference to humanity.