RE: Ask a transsexual anything
January 28, 2013 at 5:25 am
(This post was last modified: January 28, 2013 at 5:27 am by Violet.)
(January 28, 2013 at 5:20 am)Kayenneh Wrote: As a friend, how can I make the transition easier for zir?
I'm a lady, milady. Or are you speaking of a different friend?
I find it's wonderful for my femininity to be complimented, to be told that I'm pretty, to have my proper pronouns used at all times. Really, transgendered women are women just like any others... and the little things help.*
... There's a reason I fish for ego-boosting so much, and it's because I'm a scared and insecure little girl who really has little going for her in this wretched life. Unfortunately, I have friends, a girlfriend, and a mom... no easy way out for the non-selfish.
*Please disregard if they are a feminist, you might get elevatorgate'd.
(January 28, 2013 at 5:21 am)The_Germans_are_coming Wrote: Does it oftern happen that people think that you are not transsexual, meaning that they think that you are women?
Very often, actually... if I'm in makeup and taking care of myself, and keep my adam's apple swallowed up and my head down, and speak little, and make sure to walk in such a way that I don't even need to bind the devil back, and dress somewhat form-fittingly with a mild sense of fashion:
I am unclockable. But it's a lot of work, and makeup and the like cost money.
Quote:I thought both of you were women when I registered here.
Me and tara? Well surprise surprise: we both are women
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
