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Should I come out?
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RE: Should I come out?
You are only 14? How do you know that you are a homosexual? When I was in my teenage years, it was cool to be gay at the school that I was at. I had a brief flirtation with homosexuality. I tried to hook up with a guy once.

I am 27 now. Honestly, I havn't had a single thought about homosexuality in probably 7 or 8 or 9 years.

I would say grow up a little bit before you make rash decisions. Do you really need to define your sexuality at age 14?

To commit to the homosexual lifestyle is a very serious choice that will affect you your whole life. You don't need to decide that you are gay or figure everything out immediately.

If you accept the homosexual lifestyle, it will severely impair your ability to make good judgements about theology and God and bias you towards the assumptions of a culture that is virulently anti-Christian. It is possible that you could be separated from God eternally because of it, though God does not consider homosexuality to be worst than other serious sins and will lovingly accept anyone who repents, whether heterosexual or homosexual. God loves everyone, God doesn't dislike people because of their personality or their mannerism or anything like that. God loves everyone.

God loves you a lot. My heart goes out to you and I hope that you make a wise decision. Life is a dangerous place. Be careful. I have seen young boys taken advantage of in my life, women pimped out, a friend of mine had a gay pimp approach him. I know others who sold themselves for money to get drugs.

Life is a hard place. People are evil. I love you and I hope that you make wise decisions.
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Messages In This Thread
Should I come out? - by TromboneAtheist - March 10, 2013 at 6:36 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Minimalist - March 10, 2013 at 6:46 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - March 10, 2013 at 6:49 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Nine - March 10, 2013 at 6:52 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by MysticKnight - March 10, 2013 at 6:53 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - March 10, 2013 at 7:14 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by TromboneAtheist - March 10, 2013 at 7:47 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by jstrodel - March 10, 2013 at 10:03 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Darkstar - March 10, 2013 at 10:05 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by CleanShavenJesus - March 10, 2013 at 10:08 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by jstrodel - March 10, 2013 at 10:23 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by jstrodel - March 10, 2013 at 10:11 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Nine - March 10, 2013 at 10:21 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Esquilax - March 10, 2013 at 10:28 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by jstrodel - March 10, 2013 at 10:41 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Esquilax - March 11, 2013 at 12:18 am
RE: Should I come out? - by Jackalope - March 10, 2013 at 10:41 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Gilgamesh - March 10, 2013 at 10:43 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Jackalope - March 10, 2013 at 10:44 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Gilgamesh - March 10, 2013 at 10:24 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by jstrodel - March 10, 2013 at 10:46 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by TromboneAtheist - March 11, 2013 at 4:07 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by Baalzebutt - March 11, 2013 at 6:20 pm
Re: Should I come out? - by NoraBrimstone - March 11, 2013 at 5:43 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by TromboneAtheist - March 11, 2013 at 8:04 pm
RE: Should I come out? - by KichigaiNeko - March 12, 2013 at 12:02 am

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