Gay, Mormon, and Happily Married

[Nine]

Can someone explain to me how he got it up long enough to have sex with his 'wife' to have those kids?

[Erinome]

Even if he can keep it up, how does he ever finish? Finishing, I would think, would be much harder. Maybe she says in her deepest voice, "Don't stop!".....

Magic words.

[genkaus]

"Are you attracted to women?"

"No."

"Are you attracted to your wife?"

"Yes."

Doublethink much.

[C.W. Sims]

Well, if you ever need to vent, or a shoulder, or just someone to make you laugh, you can count on me. I've been very alone in this world since he died, so I could always use more genuine friends. Losing someone you love is never easy. I was basically sedated for a couple weeks after he died, and I still struggle with grief daily. Probably always will, but he wouldn't want me to be crippled by it, and my kids keep me going.

I am also a licensed counselor.

Any time.

Thank you for the offer. It will be many years from now, as he is healthy. He just has some health issues that I know will probably take a few years off his life. Diabetes and such. But for now he's good. But I do appreciate you offering and same goes for you. I might not be a licensed counselor but I try to be a great friend and listen when I can.

As to how he finishes I can only guess that he probably imagines scenes from the gay porn he almost certainly watches clandestinely when no one else is around.

[Zen Badger]

My ex wife's first husband was gay and they had four kids before they separated.

So it's not impossible.