Single Men and Bachelors: Feminism is not for you.

[Annik]

This. I don't like attention whores, nor do I like women who use their sexuality to manipulate men. Basically, women who dress and act slutty want affirmation, and they are going about it the wrong way.

Holy shit, you're an asshole.

[Spectrum]

Holy shit, you're an asshole.

I appreciate your honesty. I would rather be an asshole than be a white knight.

[Autumnlicious]

I despise white knights, but you're a dick.

Sure, you have the right to fart off an opinion about how women (ie not you) should dress and cater to your personal code of honor.

And others have the right to call you an asshole for dictating what other human beings should arbitrarily do.

[Spectrum]

I despise white knights, but you're a dick.

Sure, you have the right to fart off an opinion about how women (ie not you) should dress and cater to your personal code of honor.

And others have the right to call you an asshole for dictating what other human beings should arbitrarily do.

I can live with that. <3

[Kirbmarc]

I would rather be an asshole than be a white knight.

There are other possibilities, you know. Try treating people as equals, not objects of scorn or damsels in distress. I heard that it works.

[Spectrum]

I would rather be an asshole than be a white knight.

There are other possibilities, you know. Try treating people as equals, not objects of scorn or damsels in distress. I heard that it works.

That would mean giving up my personal values, and my values are part of my identity. Why do you want me to change myself?

[thesummerqueen]

I would rather be an asshole than be a white knight.

There are other possibilities, you know. Try treating people as equals, not objects of scorn or damsels in distress. I heard that it works.

The Madonna vs Whore mentality is too deeply ingrained in some people.

[Kirbmarc]

The Madonna vs Whore mentality is too deeply ingrained in some people.

Ever heard of the site "Heartless Bitches"? It's got great insight on this and other biases about gender identity. Plus it's funny as hell.

[thesummerqueen]

Haven't, but I'll look it up later if I remember.

Fact is, I never got why a lot of women complained about how bad men were when they never sought to 1) increase their own worth (get a hobby or a passion that makes you interesting) or 2) increase the quality of the company of men they were seeking...

And vice versa for men.

Eventually, I hope, people will realize that shithead is a genderless title and belongs on far too much of the population.

[Kirbmarc]

shithead is a genderless title and belongs on far too much of the population.

I think it's because many times we want too much. The perfect love life, the perfect sex life, the perfect social life. They're all illusions. I've never met a "perfect" person, we're all humans, flawed, sometimes boring, sometimes annoying, sometimes even shitheads.

The trick is to understand that this applies to everyone (including you, gentle reader, and the smartass who wrote this message), stop chasing a dream, accept people for what they are, and have fun. Then sooner or later you'll find someone.

He or she won't be perfect, but they'll be a real person.

And maybe, if you're lucky, you'll realise that you finally found someone that you want to share some times with.