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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 10:34 am
(November 28, 2015 at 10:28 am)Napoléon Wrote: (November 28, 2015 at 10:22 am)Mermaid Wrote: He stooped her her level. I can see why they were together in the first place.
Oh bollocks. Stooping to her level would have been him going out and cheating on her for payback. We're now saying making a video to rock roll a cheating scumbag is on the same level as cheating in the first place? What a crock of shit.
I did not say it was the same thing. In fact, I said she was clearly the party that was in the wrong. I just think he handled it in a shitty manner. Sorry that upsets you.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 10:43 am
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 10:49 am
(November 28, 2015 at 10:34 am)Mermaid Wrote: I did not say it was the same thing.
Okay then:
(November 28, 2015 at 10:22 am)Mermaid Wrote: He stooped her her level.
Quote:I just think he handled it in a shitty manner. Sorry that upsets you.
Ah, the old "jimmies rustled" response.
I'm not upset. I just think you're talking shit.
Quote:I have little patience for peoples' drama. This is an example of that.
And yet you're here...
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 10:57 am
(November 28, 2015 at 10:49 am)Napoléo Wrote: Quote:I have little patience for peoples' drama. This is an example of that.
And yet you're here...
I was not talking about YOU, I was talking about the guy in the video. Sheesh.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 11:09 am
That was a tl;dw.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 12:42 pm
No matter what she did, recording these private moments and putting them online is tantamount to a criminal offence in my eyes, and he should get ripped a new one.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 12:46 pm
(November 27, 2015 at 9:51 pm)Jenny A Wrote: I find people who can't just say I know you are cheating, goodbye without making a gotcha scene let alone a video of a gotcha scene disturbing.
Agreed, could've been handled in a more mature manner. I can certainly understand if one spontaneously lashed out in anger at the person who caused them hurt, and never ever forgave them, but the behavior in the video was too calculated to be excused imo. He could've just simply ended the relationship and left forever, knowing that by his own admission, he had already "gotten over it" by the time the video was being recorded.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 1:10 pm
I love it, good for him! She was screwing another guy while planning to marry this guy, she should shamed.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 1:17 pm
(This post was last modified: November 28, 2015 at 1:21 pm by Regina.)
I see selective outrage in this thread
I think it's funny how people react differently to men and women cheating. If this was a woman filming her cheating boyfriend, nobody would be coming to his defense. People would be (quite justifiably in my opinion) dragging him up and down and calling him a cheating asshole. But then when it's a woman people want to make excuses for her and talk about "it depends, you don't know their circumstances".
I think there are some genuine cases of cheating where the cheater was driven to it, but that transgresses gender. Still most women who cheat had no good reason, and it still stands that most men who cheat have no good reason to either. "Well fuck her better" isn't the whole story, having better sex and a better relationship takes two to work. The bored partner considering cheating has to put some effort into it too. And if all else fails I completely agree with what Nap said, you end the relationship before you explore with other partners.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 28, 2015 at 1:23 pm
(November 28, 2015 at 1:17 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I see selective outrage in this thread
I think it's funny how people react differently to men and women cheating. If this was a woman filming her cheating boyfriend, nobody would be coming to his defense. People would be (quite justifiably in my opinion) dragging him up and down and calling him a cheating asshole. But then when it's a woman people want to make excuses for her and talk about "it depends, you don't know their circumstances".
I think there are some genuine cases of cheating where the cheater was driven to it, but that transgresses gender. Still most women who cheat had no good reason, and it still stands that most men who cheat have no good reason to either. "Well fuck her better" isn't the whole story, having better sex and a better relationship takes two to work. The bored partner considering cheating has to put some effort into it too. And if all else fails I completely agree with what Nap said, you end the relationship before you explore with other partners.
If the gender roles were switched, I would feel the exact same way. By the way, I am not defending her whatsoever. She's a cheating asshole.
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