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Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
#11
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
My dad's side of the family knows, my mom's does not. My dad's side focuses on reconverting me, which makes my visits very tedious. My mom's side would freak, but my mom has passed, so I don't interact with them much anymore. I'd be surprised if any of them weren't Trump supporters, and they'd probably react worse if I had become a Muslim.
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#12
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
Actually, nobody.  But then again, I didn't care.  Anyone who won't accept me as I am is not someone I need in my life, family or no.  I never "came out", I didn't bother to announce it, I just stopped believing and stopped doing all the things I did when I believed and that was that.  I don't get why people need to make an announcement.  Just be you.  They'll figure it out.
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#13
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
As I live in the UK, nobody cares Smile
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#14
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
(March 22, 2017 at 5:15 pm)Cephus Wrote: Actually, nobody.  But then again, I didn't care.  Anyone who won't accept me as I am is not someone I need in my life, family or no.  I never "came out", I didn't bother to announce it, I just stopped believing and stopped doing all the things I did when I believed and that was that.  I don't get why people need to make an announcement.  Just be you.  They'll figure it out.

Exactly.

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#15
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
My mother and, especially, her sisters.

It's been nearly twenty years and they still try to get their little digs in.

A few years ago at a family get together they gave me a copy of the bible.

I, in turn, bought them each a copy of, "God is not great", by Hitchens.
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#16
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
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If we're to believe the stories...no one throws a bigger tizzy when an atheist is born or made than the big guy himself. 

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#17
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
(March 22, 2017 at 6:07 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: My mother and, especially, her sisters.

It's been nearly twenty years and they still try to get their little digs in.

A few years ago at a family get together they gave me a copy of the bible.

I, in turn, bought them each a copy of, "God is not great", by Hitchens.


My dad is the type of person that, even if he thinks you might disagree with you he will attack with his arguments at random. I don't have to try to fight with him he just does it. I don't have the balls to get him a book like that he might actually kill me.
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#18
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
(March 22, 2017 at 6:33 pm)godlessheatheness Wrote:
(March 22, 2017 at 6:07 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: My mother and, especially, her sisters.

It's been nearly twenty years and they still try to get their little digs in.

A few years ago at a family get together they gave me a copy of the bible.

I, in turn, bought them each a copy of, "God is not great", by Hitchens.


My dad is the type of person that, even if he thinks you might disagree with you he will attack with his arguments at random. I don't have to try to fight with him he just does it. I don't have the balls to get him a book like that he might actually kill me.

I'm not the sort who lets people get away with things like that.

I'm quite confrontational about it.

The last big episode was when my brother came back from Afghanistan and said he was an atheist, no longer Catholic, because of what he saw religion doing to the society over there.

Apparently, that was my fault, too.
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#19
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
(March 22, 2017 at 5:15 pm)Cephus Wrote: Actually, nobody.  But then again, I didn't care.  Anyone who won't accept me as I am is not someone I need in my life, family or no.  I never "came out", I didn't bother to announce it, I just stopped believing and stopped doing all the things I did when I believed and that was that.  I don't get why people need to make an announcement.  Just be you.  They'll figure it out.

Yeah, I tried that one. My parents pulled it out of me to fuel their reaction anyway.
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#20
RE: Who reacted the worst when you "came out" as an Atheist?
(March 21, 2017 at 10:51 pm)godlessheatheness Wrote: I haven't made it officially open. I have a lot of family that is going to freak the fuck out when they find out. I wanted to see if anybody had any stories about their own coming out.

I don't want to feel like I have to hide it. I want to be open and be able to post things on my facebook but I am absolutely scared of my dad and his family and how they are going to freak.

Actually, no one reacted particularly poorly now that I think about it. It was kinda awkward cause my mom still made me go to church afterward and my feelings weren't well concealed when I asked Sunday school teachers how a lion would eat grain even in an apocalypse. They all just kinda endured it. Mormons honestly are too nice, I should have been yelled at so many times.
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