Can Someone Explain This To Me?

[Jade-Green Stone]

Thanks for answering everyone, glad I wasn't judged for asking such a question because the internet and extremist snowflakes tend to be very scary *Jokes Alert*

But in all seriousness the world is giant cluster fuck and seems like you ask anything that confuses you, you are labeled as either 'against god, snowflake' or 'homophobic, misogynist, or racist'.

Anywho, thanks for taking the time to answer!

[onlinebiker]

Perhaps it is genetic. Perhaps it' s environmental.

Who cares?


They' re your bits. Use them how you like, share them with anyone who cares to play with them.


It' s up to you.

[Losty]

However our sexuality comes about, I’m fairly certain that mine came about in much the same way as any straight person’s did. I doubt I was born pansexual as I didn’t have any sort of sexual attraction as a young child, but I definitely did not choose to be this way either.

[I_am_not_mafia]

Note it doesn't mean asexual people do not nevertheless have sexual activities with others (or themselves), whether to impress others, to experiment, etc. It also doesn't mean you can't have romantic attraction to others.

I'm a romantic asexual myself. I have no desire for sex and get bored when I do have it. Honestly there are many things I enjoy doing far more than sex. But I have always wanted a companion to share my life and to be emotionally intimate with so I get classed as a romantic asexual. Yet I acknowledge that my husband is sexual so I occasionally have sex with him. But because I can't muster up any passion (I'm also anorgasmic and have never had an orgasm), I allow him to have sex with other women on condition that it's purely sexual and not a relationship. (I admit I may be naive in that regard).

In terms of the OP and being born a particular way, the leading idea at the moment is that it happens during development in the womb. You shouldn't think of the brain as a single atomic unit but made up of many different parts that each perform a different function or behavioural trait. Some areas will be more or less developed than others as the brain grows in the womb.

[Little lunch]

However our sexuality comes about, I’m fairly certain that mine came about in much the same way as any straight person’s did. I doubt I was born pansexual as I didn’t have any sort of sexual attraction as a young child, but I definitely did not choose to be this way either.

Every time I see the word pansexual I get an image of a man with horns and goat legs, playing the flute while people have sex on the grass around him.
True story, I'm not making fun of it.

[Angrboda]

However our sexuality comes about, I’m fairly certain that mine came about in much the same way as any straight person’s did. I doubt I was born pansexual as I didn’t have any sort of sexual attraction as a young child, but I definitely did not choose to be this way either.

Every time I see the word pansexual I get an image of a man with horns and goat legs, playing the flute while people have sex on the grass around him.
True story, I'm not making fun of it.

I'm a Peter Pansexual. My sex life is in Never Land.

[Gawdzilla Sama]

However our sexuality comes about, I’m fairly certain that mine came about in much the same way as any straight person’s did. I doubt I was born pansexual as I didn’t have any sort of sexual attraction as a young child, but I definitely did not choose to be this way either.

Every time I see the word pansexual I get an image of a man with horns and goat legs, playing the flute while people have sex on the grass around him.
True story, I'm not making fun of it.