Should you end the relationship with a person for one big mistake?

[GrandizerII]

Just an observation...seems the OP has a lot of 'relationship' issues.  A lot.

I have to wonder where the issue lies.  Is it with the OP or with everyone else they encounter?

I haven't made that observation so far. I think all the threads she's been making have been about one particular person, namely her father.

[arewethereyet]

Just an observation...seems the OP has a lot of 'relationship' issues.  A lot.

I have to wonder where the issue lies.  Is it with the OP or with everyone else they encounter?

I haven't made that observation so far. I think all the threads she's been making have been about one particular person, namely her father.

It's not clear to me but then I have done an in depth study.  I just notice a lot of thread about being wronged by someone.  Maybe it would help to put all grievances about a single person in one place instead of threads each time there's an issue.

I don't know...for all the threads, if it's one person or many, it doesn't seem to be improving.

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Just an observation...seems the OP has a lot of 'relationship' issues.  A lot.

I have to wonder where the issue lies.  Is it with the OP or with everyone else they encounter?

 Perhaps.

My own track record in relationships is appalling. In my 20's  I had a LOT of first dates. I have been rejected  by every woman I have loved. There have been three of those. The first when I was 20, the last at 63.

I worked out there was 'something wrong with me' very early.  I only found out what what that "something'  is  5 years ago; I have Asperger's Syndrome.. That explains a lot a lot , but solves nothing.

Having many relationships can certainly indicate  'issues'. One of which may be becoming repeatedly involved with the same 'type' of person. For me it has been becoming involved with emotionally distant women. That is not my insight. My shrink pointed that out .

I guess we need to work with  what we have, perhaps concentrating more on self acceptance, than with finding fault

I'm not laying any blame.  There's nothing wrong with lots of relationships.  There is something wrong with lots of toxic relationships.