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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 9:21 am
(April 18, 2014 at 9:10 am)My imaginary friend is GOD Wrote: You can spank me any time you want, if our safe word is Xena and you respect the safe word
That's what I like hearing, I'll go Hercules on your ass.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 9:23 am
(April 18, 2014 at 9:21 am)FlyingNarwhal Wrote: (April 18, 2014 at 9:10 am)My imaginary friend is GOD Wrote: You can spank me any time you want, if our safe word is Xena and you respect the safe word
That's what I like hearing, I'll go Hercules on your ass. But can you "Go the Distance"?
What? It's a song from the Disney movie Hercules... "I Can Go the Distance"...
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 9:32 am
Ohhh I can definitely go the distance, trust me on that. I think the better question may be, can you keep up?
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 9:52 am
I'm Xena... can YOU keep up?
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 10:17 am
(April 18, 2014 at 9:52 am)My imaginary friend is GOD Wrote: I'm Xena... can YOU keep up?
I'll give you a battle like you've never seen my warrior princess
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 18, 2014 at 11:38 am
(April 18, 2014 at 8:39 am)My imaginary friend is GOD Wrote: I didn't specify to him, I just asked him a question in passing, but both.
You obviously have very different conversations to me.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 20, 2014 at 9:31 am
(March 27, 2014 at 8:06 am)Deidre32 Wrote: What do you all think about the concept of ‘friends with benefits?’
Asked two of my offline Christian friends and they say it ‘cheapens your worth in a man’s eyes.’
My offline atheist friends say ‘nothing wrong with it, but if feelings emerge, it can ruin the friendships.’
Hmmm. I don’t want to get serious with anyone, but hanging out with someone in a ‘mutually beneficial’ arrangement, sounds…appealing.
Would be interested in your ideas about it, and if you have stories to share of your own. (good or bad)
I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a girl that I met at the gym.
After my ex girlfriend and I broke up I had sex with her the very next day and ever since we realized that it's just lust and nothing more.
She comes once or twice a week to my place to kick back and enjoy.
The issue is eventually you end up to start behaving like a couple as people tend to start having conversations, giving advice, and eventually ending up in the bed.
If both sides are ok with keeping it casual without having feelings then it's definitely a fun and adventurous experience.
We've been doing it for three months now and unfortunately she's starting to develop feelings and it's time for me to get rigid and cut the cord.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 20, 2014 at 2:04 pm
(April 20, 2014 at 9:31 am)Vegamo Wrote: (March 27, 2014 at 8:06 am)Deidre32 Wrote: What do you all think about the concept of ‘friends with benefits?’
Asked two of my offline Christian friends and they say it ‘cheapens your worth in a man’s eyes.’
My offline atheist friends say ‘nothing wrong with it, but if feelings emerge, it can ruin the friendships.’
Hmmm. I don’t want to get serious with anyone, but hanging out with someone in a ‘mutually beneficial’ arrangement, sounds…appealing.
Would be interested in your ideas about it, and if you have stories to share of your own. (good or bad)
I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a girl that I met at the gym.
After my ex girlfriend and I broke up I had sex with her the very next day and ever since we realized that it's just lust and nothing more.
She comes once or twice a week to my place to kick back and enjoy.
The issue is eventually you end up to start behaving like a couple as people tend to start having conversations, giving advice, and eventually ending up in the bed.
If both sides are ok with keeping it casual without having feelings then it's definitely a fun and adventurous experience.
We've been doing it for three months now and unfortunately she's starting to develop feelings and it's time for me to get rigid and cut the cord.
Yep, probably the inevitable ending to the fwb ''story.''
I met a guy last weekend when out with friends, and we have been on two dates this weekend. Awesome guy. Sexy, and just awesome. So, going to see where it leads, so far so good.
And leave my friendships with other guys, as just that. Friendships.
Thanks all for your advice.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 20, 2014 at 2:51 pm
(April 20, 2014 at 2:04 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: I met a guy last weekend when out with friends, and we have been on two dates this weekend. Awesome guy. Sexy, and just awesome. So, going to see where it leads, so far so good.
And leave my friendships with other guys, as just that. Friendships.
Thanks all for your advice.
Well I sure hope you're the kind to tell if you kiss .. and so on. Wishing you an orgasmic week.
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RE: Friends with benefits?
April 22, 2014 at 5:31 pm
(April 17, 2014 at 11:44 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: It might be the way your hair looks in the pic, Rahul. Idk :p
Sorry to hear that my imaginary friend is god...kinda funny though that it scared him? what? lol
I have a date tomorrow night. I met this guy out with friends last weekend, and we are going to dinner and then ...we'll see after that.
I noticed this thread with TC/Phatt Matt as the last poster and it reminded me of his posts here. lol You're missed Matt, if you're reading this.
Cool on meeting someone.
Congratulations.
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