More atheist men than women?

[Longhorn]

But this is the same for both men and women. And if anything, if I felt like I was being "blackmailed" it would make me more likely to not want to believe in any of it at all.

Nuh uh.

You don't choose to believe or disbelieve, you just do. And if you believe you're going to hell if you disobey, you aren't leaving.

Religion controls women. Tells them to submit to their husbands. Makes them inferior to men. Tells them what to do or not do with their bodies, what to wear and what not to wear, how to behave and how to express and not express their sexuality. It raises them to be obedient, on pain of eternal torture.

If you really believe, you're too scared to leave. And if you're not taught to think for yourself, it's hard to disbelieve.