In all seriousness CL, things like this can cause real chemical mental issues. Don't hesitate to get professional help if you feel you need it. It can be a form of PTSD. Trauma to your mental health isn't about seeing physical violence, scars can be emotional and mental too. I do wish you well and hope you get through it.
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I''m really sorry that this happened
 I can't possibly understand how you must feel right now
"He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. For if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss also gazes unto you."
Well.... shit!
I already said something over facebook, so... yeah... not much of a point in repeating it here.... not that I said much.... :'( I remember when you found out you were pregnant... it came as a surprise, after a routine test for your nose surgery. You had mixed feelings about that pregnancy... but you wanted a baby and that nose could always be fixed later... Your first few months were plagued with morning sickness... that can't have helped much. What was supposed to be a pleasant journey, quickly turned into an unexpected bumpy ride.... and, now, a nightmare... I can't start to imagine what you're going through, but I know one thing - life goes on. I hope you and your husband can find it in yourselves to try again, if that is what you both want - a child. Each pregnancy is different... the next one may very well be a breeze... no sickness, no nothing, just a big belly and a few kicks  I have a friend who lost her first baby... now she has 2 beautiful daughters...  In the meantime, go get that nose job - breathe right and be even more beautiful! 
 
So sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you and your husband.
The whole tone of Church teaching in regard to woman is, to the last degree, contemptuous and degrading. - Elizabeth Cady Stanton
Heart goes out to you, CL.
Sorry you had to go through this. 
I'm sitting here crying for your loss. My condolences sweetheart.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you." 
You're too nice a person to have to go through this. I wish you well and bid you peace.
Boru
‘But it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods or no gods. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.’ - Thomas Jefferson
 (August 15, 2016 at 1:51 pm)Brian37 Wrote: In all seriousness CL, things like this can cause real chemical mental issues. Don't hesitate to get professional help if you feel you need it. It can be a form of PTSD. Trauma to your mental health isn't about seeing physical violence, scars can be emotional and mental too. I do wish you well and hope you get through it. Seconded. Take care of yourself, CL.
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.
Albert Einstein 
I'm sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the grief. I hope you and your family will be alright.
"The fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one." - George Bernard Shaw
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