So that girl I was talkin' about, I wanna ask her out not to late into the year.

What do I say, How do I say it? How do I become all relaxed and Xenu-ish?

Sometimes I get nervous and my legs start breaking down, or sometimes I can talk to her calmly. It's just my voice can change when I talk to her. And blurry vision. Omg the tunnel vision is real.

So I don't wanna flop. If I get rejected, my loss, I'll get over it. But I wanna make sure I don't make a bad impression.

What do I do?

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P.S

I'm not a fuck boy

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Or a try hard

Be direct with the person tell them how you feel if they say no just be their friend get to know them better and try again later
/shrug

thats all i got but i am happy being single

You walk over to her and say " Do you want to do x after class?"

Then you do x and see how it goes.

(August 19, 2016 at 1:11 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: You walk over to her and say " Do you want to do x after class?"

Then you do x and see how it goes.

Welllllll I feel like that would be to subtle but sudden with her.

(August 19, 2016 at 1:13 pm)ScienceAf Wrote:

(August 19, 2016 at 1:11 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: You walk over to her and say " Do you want to do x after class?"

Then you do x and see how it goes.

Welllllll I feel like that would be to subtle but sudden with her.

Just try it.

(August 19, 2016 at 1:14 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote:

(August 19, 2016 at 1:13 pm)ScienceAf Wrote: Welllllll I feel like that would be to subtle but sudden with her.

Just try it.

There's four minutes between classes, and she's not the type to do something after class besides sit and read.

P.S

I wanted to start a book club, or secular. She talks about that stuff and so do I

The only helpful thing I have to say is that girls get nervous about this too. You're on equal ground here. Good luck.

There ain't a universal recipe for asking a girl out. Just relax and be yourself. If she likes you, it won't take much of an effort to have a positive result. 10 years later I still can't explain to myself how I managed to make my greatest female love to go out with me, I just did it. I guess a big role played the fact she already liked me before I asked her out.
But nowadays I don't waste time with dates. I just say "do you want we skip the bullshit talking and have sex?" and half of them say "yes".

Alcohol worked for me. And if they agree to go out with you after they've seen you pissed you know you're in.

(August 19, 2016 at 1:16 pm)ScienceAf Wrote:

(August 19, 2016 at 1:14 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: Just try it.

There's four minutes between classes, and she's not the type to do something after class besides sit and read.

P.S

I wanted to start a book club, or secular. She talks about that stuff and so do I

Find her after class is over, or whenever there's enough time and ask her what books she's reading. Have a conversation. If she seems to enjoy it you can ask her contacts, talk to her online/on the phone and then see where it goes from there. If she seems like she's into you, you can ask her out then, later on.