(August 19, 2016 at 1:29 pm)ScienceAf Wrote: I'm 12 so I have to wait for love to develop in my mind, so that's why I need to ask her out.
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I guess, if I had a point at all, what I was saying is, the relationship is more important than the label. Asking her out might help with that, or it might make things more awkward, whereas just allowing things to develop gives you either a date who definitely wants it, or a really good friend if that doesn't pan out. I do get the desire to put words to what you're feeling and level up, so to speak, but don't feel like you have to rush it if you can't find the words that work for you just yet. Every moment you spend with her before you ask gives her a better grasp of you as a person and more comfort around you; you don't need to focus on capital L Love so much as you do the history the two of you share as people.
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